I'm soon to be 21 year, even thou I work 4 days a week (10hrs) and have 3 days free, my parents just won't let me go out at all.
I'm a muslim girl living in Pakistani household, even thou I'm grateful for everything they have allowed me, but there just one thing they won't let me do. which is going out with my friends, for some reason, my dad thinks that I have to stay home and do whatever, he won't let me go to my friend birthday dinner/lunch, he won't even let me walk out the house for errand, he only lets me go to work which my mum would drop me off and pick me up. I tried to walk myself but my parents would just screamed at me which I find frustrated as I just feel suffocated in this house like I can't go see my friends, if I text or call my friend, they would asked me like who is It or why am I calling for? honestly please help your girl out! I was thinking of moving out but I feel like my monthly payment isn't enough for an apartment or even groceries or whatever. but if I do move out, my dad has friends and connection all over the country. it so hard to being able to do sit without feeling like who' who here or is someone here a friend of dad? it so hard.
another thing is that I brought ups a convo with my dad and my younger brother to ask him if I can go out with my friends because all I ever do is work work work. he said to my brother that he won't let me go out at all Is because I'm a girl. my brother doesn't agree with him but didn't say anything as he can be very strict with my brother. my brother and I are very modern while half od the family is traditional or think like my parents.
Im the third sibling in the family. there four of us, two boys and two girls. my sister is the oldest.
please help me.