u/AKisBetter07

Guys gonna be meeting my LDR for the first time (second actually first time we couldn't talk cz parents the dono ke) and now im so indecisive ki wt should I buy for her. Pls bta do yaar koi toh, im thinking chocolates and all that she can't take chize home toh i had to cancel the plan of bouquet isliye chocolates, Neckless and Letters which she can easily hide while entering the ghar. Does this sound good and I have selected kuch necklace bta do if its good. She is light skinned and prefers light necklace wagera and thodi dangling earrings. Also idk idk wt more i cn get her and yah im low on budget cz most of my savings will go in travelling, 7hr travelling so yeah

So today when I got to know that it's my cousin's birthday and for context lemme tell you he is 4-5yrs old. That kid is so damn innocent and adorable like i have so many cousin's but among all of them he stands out. Im the oldest child in my family and I don't live in the say state as them. When I got to know about this I thought let's surprise him so I called and wished him then I asked if he wanted something so he said "Bhaiya Spidy wala cake chahiye" and lol I was like okay bhejwa dunga. Btw im a student and I didn't have a great childhood since I was in Boarding skl from starting so i wanted to make him feel special and js him among all my cousins cz he was my favourite mama's son and let's js say uska mumma doesn't give him enough attention toh yep isliye I wnted to do all this for him.

In the evening I was thinking ki yaar uhhh idk if I should spend itna jyada for a cake (ik i got scammed but wtv) toh sn him a cake and uske baad I called him to see his reaction he was so happy fir me gym chala gya and when I got bck mumma called me and gave me a lecture. Yk indian families and their problems so yep she was in favor cake bhejwane ke but when I got bck she said you should've send that cake and then she told me ki they had bought a cake evem tho I gifted them one, which I thought was not a big deal but then she told me ki they had called my whole joint family on video call which I didn't join obv cz I ws busy in the gym and cut the cake and she told me that mera cake dikhaya bhi nhi to which I got abit disappointed kyuki I mean yaar I wnted ki mera cake bhi cut kre woh but then I was like chord yaar atleast I gave that cake with a good heart toh it doesn't really matter. Atleast baccha toh happy that that he got his "Spidy cake" lol but man still i smwt feel hurt ki why wouldn't they cut my cake aswell, its not that I wnted them to cut sirf mera hi but mera bhi apne wale cake ke saath kaat sakte the.

Js wanted to get this off my chest, not feeling so great but okay. One thing ik for a fact is that Aging doesn't mean you're mature. These Indian families and their conflicts will never stop 🙏

Ty for listening ppl (mn kre toh karma de dena wnna cross post it aswell)