Controversially, I’m a straight up FUDD and want a club with lots of firing restrictions in place ( don’t care what you do but I don’t personally want to be in an environment where people are rapid firing mag dumping etc. I only shoot to hunt.)
Don’t hate me - again, think it’s fine for others just not my preference
Looking to finally buy a house. Have been in Philly for a while. Most important thing for me is a strong sense of community and young children on the block since I also have young children. I know there are some blocks that are tighter than others. Any insight into specific blocks to look at? Not choosy on area but would prefer NW Philly or anywhere east of broad and south of market.
My mom 64 had total left knee replacement on Tuesday morning. She was in extreme pain for the first three days (in hospital) vomiting constantly, crying from the pain. She got discharged and pain is slightly lower but is still bad enough that she cried getting on and off the bed and still is battling intense nausea
She has a walker and is up walking but doesn’t seem like she can put lots of weight on her leg. She can hardly bend her leg at all and is in pain when she straightens it fully. She barely moves a couple inches when she tries slides. Cannot sit and extend out or in. I’m concerned that this is not a good sign.
Her leg has also started to swell a lot. We try elevating but it hurts more bc we only elevate under the calf or foot not under the knee to force the leg to straighten flat per dr instruction.
Can you guys let me know if this is normal I’m starting to worry.
As in title. Got an offer but requires commuting to another city that’s 2 hours away (each way) a few times a week. Currently work 100% remote. I have a toddler but have insanely good WLB for my consulting niche (but am underpaid and there’s a ceiling on progression). Moving cities is not a possibility. WLB would obviously go down but progression opps are better.
Would love to hear responses from other parents in particular mid career. I’m struggling with trade off between family time + good WLB, and $ and better future outlook especially as I feel I’m at a critical juncture at 8 YOE.
Current TC: 185k base, 25% bonus, 35hr / week, 5 weeks vacation, fully remote, ceiling
Offer TC: 250k base, 50% bonus, 50 hr / week +, 3 weeks vacation, commute 3x a week for 2+ hours each way (could fold some work time into that on trains), better progression outlook