Would you like me to draw your platy?

If so, post a picture!

Yesterday I posted my first attempt at drawing a platy. People were kind to me (thank you kind people). I love platies and would love to draw/ paint yours!

I'm teaching myself to draw for fun as part of a recovery from a really hard time in my life. Fish keeping is a part of this same process - I'm trying to learn how to do things just for the joy of them! To me, fish keeping and drawing are also similar in that they teach me to pay attention to small details and beautiful, joyful things. And that they help me experience both my own agency and the things in the world that my agency can engage with but not control (I think that's the space for play? And maybe politics 🤔 I am overthinking this, time to go draw a fish)

Anyway. Post me a picture of your platy if you'd like me to draw them :)

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u/A_little_curiosity — 4 days ago

Suitable for an oto family?

This is a 65 Litre tank. It is currently home to only neocardina shrimp. As you can see, it is very densely planted. As you can't see, there's a big bit of driftwood in there, hidden by the pants. Is this tank suitable for otos as it is? Or do I need to cut back plants etc? Anything else glaring?

How many oto would you put in this tank?

It currently has two internal filters running, as well as a heater and an airstone - listing these things because you can't see all of them for the plants!

u/A_little_curiosity — 4 days ago

Bathroom reno "key in lockbox, no exceptions". But... Dog?

Hi all! Seeking advice as I don't know what is standard - I haven't don't anything like this before

The company that is hopefully doing my bathroom reno has said that they need complete key in lockbox access during the reno. I completely understand that they need to be able to come and go and I'm happy to grant them full access.

The only issue is that I'll still be living in the house through the reno, and I have a dog in part for personal and home security. It's very important to me to be responsible for the well-being of the dog and the well-being of anyone who enters the house! So I'm trying to work out how to manage this.

I work from home so to me it seems like this should be no big deal - all I actually need is an idea of what days people are coming (so I can make sure I'm home, or otherwise secure dog), and a knock on the door on arrival (so I can secure dog).

The company does not seem comfortable with this, and I'm surprised. Before I go further into sorting this out, I wanted to ask - what is the usual approach? Do I just need to find somewhere else to live through this time? Or are other companies likely to be more open to letting me know when they will be on the property etc?

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u/A_little_curiosity — 7 days ago

Could I hang pictures from wooden cornice?

I really want to hang up some pictures around my house. I can't nail into the walls because they are asbestos. I hate command hooks because I feel like no matter what I do they might fail. I could get picture rails professionally installed and might eventually! But for now, could I put little hooks straight into the wooden cornice to hang things? Or is this a bad idea for reasons I do not understand. Any other possible solutions I'm missing? Guidance appreciated! Thank you for a great sub

u/A_little_curiosity — 9 days ago

Could I hang pictures etc from my wooden cornice?

I really want to hang up some pictures around my house. I can't nail into the walls because they are made from ye olde lung poisonous substance. I hate command hooks because I feel like no matter what I do they might fail. I could get picture rails professionally installed and might eventually! But for now, could I put little hooks straight into the wooden cornice to hang things? Or is this a bad idea for reasons I do not understand. Guidance appreciated! Thank you for a great sub

u/A_little_curiosity — 9 days ago
▲ 840 r/gratitude

Grateful for my dog's warmth and kindness while I'm sick

She's not usually a very affectionate dog, but she's cuddly when I'm sick. The nicest part of a bad week - my little mate

u/A_little_curiosity — 12 days ago

Does this look safe to you?

I was looking at buying this tank, but when I showed up to collect, one corner has a crack and has been patched. It's a big tank - about 4 foot - and I obviously really don't want it to explode and destroy my house and/ or life. Seller says professionally patched but I still feel nervous. What do you reckon?

u/A_little_curiosity — 2 months ago

Is she just old or ?

This female platy never bounced back after her last enormous batch of fry. She spent a lot of time hiding (there's a lot of good hiding spots in the tank) and would sometimes spit out food. I put her on her own but that seemed to stress her out more, so I put her back with everyone else. Now her behaviour has brightened a lot and she is back swimming around with overdone and eats well. But her fins are mostly clamped and her spin has now curved. I have interpreted this as her being old and I am imagining that I am essentially palliating her, planning to euthanize whenever the time seems right. But recently someone online said that a fish with these symptoms has TB and is dangerous to other fish and to meee. What do you reckon?

u/A_little_curiosity — 2 months ago

Help me move past shame and love this again

In the past I have drawn so much joy and energy from plants, and now I want to again!

I got tired and busy and run down. Life things happened. Health things happened. And now when I look at my plants, I feel stressed about how much work I have to do to get things back to a good place (so much repotting required, omg). I feel stress and shame instead of joy! And as they are a hobby, I should find new homes for them if they aren't making me happy. But I really really feel like they can make me happy again! I feel like I'm looking for the right key for the lock to get back in to my love of this

I would deeply appreciate any advice, encouragement, or story-sharing. Please be kind to me :)

Pictures are some of my favourite leaves from some of my favourite plants that are still bravely holding on! It was nice to focus on them to take these photos

u/A_little_curiosity — 3 months ago

How much meant to feed the damn shrimp ?

There's so much different and contradictory advice! 

I have a 2 foot tank, heavily planted, and its only (visible) inhabitants are some snails and my beloved neocardina shrimp. I don't know how many are in there as the tank is so very full of hiding places! But I'd guess between 30 and 50 adults and approx one million babies since a recent triumphant baby boom

I want to do right by the bugs but it's hard to know how often I'm meant to feed them and how much! Some things say I shouldn't feed them at all because they can nibble sufficient biofilm; some things say feed them several times a day; some things say every second day; some things say twice a week; blah blah blah

I have recently been feeding them "shrimp cuisine" pellets every second day, just as much as they can eat in a few hours. That they are breeding seems like a good sign! But some grow so much faster than others, so I wonder if the shrimpier shrimps might not be getting enough? But I also don't want snail and algae bloom etc. Advice?

u/A_little_curiosity — 3 months ago