Flagz:
- agender
- aromantic
- transmasc
- transgender
- voidpunk
- term collector
- voidgender
- pupgender
- he/him pronouns
Symbolz:
- Otherkin
- AuDHD
- OCD
- hypersexuality
I use the 'aboy' term but I found out about it after finishing my ball so... Yeah.
One thing is clear to me: I'm aromantic, but I can't really peak (and don't really want to) a label to explain my sexual attraction.
I don't know if what I feel is sensual, sexual or aesthetic attraction, or all of them or something else, and I'm constantly shifting between being aroace, aroallo, oriented aroace, trying to shut up my brain because thinking so much about labels makes me feel stupid... Yeah
I've heard about pomosexual and aceflux, and I feel like those two somehow fit, but idk why using more unknown labels like those doesn't make me feel comfortable... For example: the labels that fit the most with me are cupioromantic, nebularomantic and genderfaun, but I use for myself the labels aromantic and enby because they're more known and for some reason having more known labels makes me feel more at ease... Idrk how to explain.
I've stopped trying to label my sexuality time ago because it was giving me headaches, so I go by the aromantic label alone, but there's this part of my brain still nagging at me for that...
I was aroace for like 4 years until know, and maybe that's why I'm comfortable with that term even now, but at the same time being aroallo makes sense? And being in between makes sense too? And while aroace is easier to explain and it has been part of me for a long time, I feel like saying I'm aroace would be lying somehow. Same with aroallo: even if I feel aroallo somehow, saying it feels like a lie.
Something similar happens when I try to label my sexual attraction: labeling it makes me feel weird and not labeling it makes me feels just as weird: like no label or lack of it fits completely
I don't really know how to finish this long ass thing so uhhh wear masks because love is in the air idk
This is off topic but I've been using Reddit for almost 2 years and I don't know how to put the tiny flags next to my name when posting/commenting on here- idek how they're called lol
(Sorry if some parts are weird english isn't my first language and I didn't double check this before posting it)
I've had thrichotillomania since 2021 and I just found out this sub exists... I'm so happy waaah
So I was wondering if there's anyone who know any kind of tricks or tips I can use because I've been waiting to grow my hair for a year now and I just relapsed...
I listen to Femtanyl, STYXVII, and a lot of Vocaloid... But I can't find any artist with a similar vibe- so yeah that's pretty much it lmao