u/AbbreviationsKey6379

I’m feeling really confused about my relationship and need some outside perspective.

My girlfriend is extremely focused on her studies, and I genuinely respect that. I know academics are important and I’ve always tried to support her goals.

But lately it feels like there’s no space for us in this relationship.

Whenever we talk, the conversation is mostly about her studies, her stress, her schedule, and what she’s dealing with. If I try to talk about my own feelings, my day, or something that matters to me, it often feels brushed off or ignored.

We barely go on dates, we don’t really have deep conversations anymore, and I’m starting to feel emotionally disconnected. It’s like I’m there for support when she needs it, but my emotional needs don’t get the same attention.

I’m not asking for constant attention or for her to neglect her goals. I just want some balance — quality time, meaningful conversations, and to feel heard.

Has anyone been in a relationship like this? Is this just a phase because of academic pressure, or is this a sign that we’re emotionally incompatible?