u/Able-Refrigerator813

We were pretty much exclusive when we first started talking at the beginning of April. He and I share similar values and along great. We both know that I make more money than him and I’ve held extremely high-pressure jobs and am in a cut throat industry. He organizes and plant wellness fairs and gives presentations to executives, etc about benefits, etc. he gets very stressed and shuts down from the workload and wanting to be perfect at his job. He told me his therapist thinks he’s depressed and also wants to prescribe adderall to help focus. Does anyone have experience with similar boyfriend? How do you handle it? I’ve been as supportive as possible and just get worried thinking that he won’t be able to handle a wife for kids and he can’t handle “stress” from doing a presentation.

They’re kind of insensitive? Selfish? Frugal? Distant when things are going their way? At first it was great and we were enjoying each others time, would joke, and laugh nonstop. When I open up or talk about my day, he’ll jokingly make snoring noises. Or another time I’ll share things he’s asked about and it just doesn’t get acknowledged at all. Then he’ll ask if he can Venmo me for groceries that I get for us at his place for cinco de mayo and take days to repay me, yet book a trip, get new accessories for his hobbies, etc. what do yall think of Aries f 29 and Aquarius m 32 long term like this? I can’t tell if I’m just annoyed and thinking about grass is greener or if I just need to be more accepting and take things less personally. Ily 🤟🏻