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I used to have an ED where i was super restrictive and i didn’t eat anything starved myself all day. My mom noticed and helped me out of it and i started eating more. I maintained a healthy weight and balanced weight for a year until this year i started gaining a bit of tummy, eating more and i got some fat on my stomach and a bit of a double chin. I gained maybe a total of 3 kilos but the changes on my body are noticeable. At first my mom kept telling me that i was a little pig or i was a little fat as a joke or im really lazy and i have to go to the gym. It was harmless at first but when she realized i was actually getting fat she compared me to athletes and said “they eat so much” but they’re so skinny unlike you. She keeps grabbing at me on areas where i gained weight and she keeps commenting on my body every single day. I cried really hard about it today because she refused to let me eat more when i said i wanted to. She kept saying how fat i was and taking unflattering pictures of me and saying “look you’re so fat” or oh you’re getting thicker. I’m so upset and i don’t know what to do because i don’t understand how she would want me to recover while still shaming me when i gain a little weight. I have no idea what to do and i’ve told her to stop or ignored her and told her that she makes me upset but she refuses to stop. She says i shouldn’t get too fat and constantly judges how i eat. I don’t know what to do.

I watched the movie twice in one day just to prove this

Nikki is definitely Sandy. Those who say otherwise should rewatch the movie with the theory in mind, I promise it makes more sense and a lot of details make sense if you watch it again with this theory in mind. Right after Bear broke the one wish willow and saw Nikki walking up to his car. Nikki says "My cat died." and when Bear was confused she said "I mean your cat died." Probably just Sandy being confused since she just got into Nikki's body. The moment that fake Nikki stepped into Bear's home. She said it smelled nice, "Like Bear." Implying a cat smelling their owner's scent. Then the following morning after Bear wakes up, Nikki set up a memorial for Sandy. How on earth did she know where Sandy's dead body was? Sandy was stuffed into a garbage bag in the start of the movie, which implied that her body was probably in the bin. Only Sandy would know where Bear kept her body. Then progressing when Nikki came back to his house again, in that scene where she wore a pink dress, her eyes were sparkling and bright in the dark: like a cat. The following day when Bear slept with Nikki, he woke up with her standing in the corner, wearing his sweater. Bear asked her why she was wearing his sweater, she said "It smells like you." Again the same point that cats love smelling their owner's scent. When he asked her to come out, she started prowling slowly like a cat: sneaking up to him with her hands out. Then she retreated quickly, like a cat retreating. After that she holds a flower vase and holds it in front of her face. Then she says, "This is for Sandy." And then she laid back down. In the morning when Bear wakes up, he finds Nikki sitting there with his lunchbox. Then he gets the lunchbox and approached the taped down door. Opening it and telling Nikki to wait until he went home. After he left, Nikki was still standing there smiling, like a cat waiting for their owner to go home. Then she peed on the carpet, a bit like when you leave your cat alone in the house and they pee out of spite because you're not home. Then when Bear opened his lunchbox, Sarah saw a note written by Nikki, "What's the verdict: cat." Bear opens the sandwich and finds a piece of cat filleted and stuffed between the sandwich. Wasn't sure why Sandy would offer her corpse to Bear. But maybe it could be because Sandy would offer herself to be sacrificed for Bear. When Bear came home, he found Nikki covered in vomit and cat food. Her vomit was BLACK, not sure why. But she vomited cat food and was probably confused because she didn't know why she vomited. She told Bear she was sorry and said she was disgusting. Which was weird because "Nikki" never really apologized for the insane things she did. Which probably meant she was genuinely confused why she did it. Also "Nikki" never really ate anything throughout the movie. Which implied she probably just ate cat food. Honestly she probably isn't actually the cat but these are stuff i noticed.