u/Acceptable_Hearing57

I want to pay the 125 to move in early but I don’t have like a “real” reason other than wanting to get out of my parents house sooner. Has anyone done this and did the university ask why or for any documentation or anything? I also have a question about parking spaces and if you get to chose which lot you get or if you can park where ever in the student parking?

Okay so some background info to start off I’m 18 and I’m going into my sophomore year of college in the fall and I’m staying with my parents for the summer. I’ve been on HRT for about two months now and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in a long time.
The problem is my mom. I came out to her when I was twelve and she basically said that it was just a phase and that she wouldn’t let my transition socially or medically until I was 18 because she was scared I’d regret transitioning and blame her for letting me. When I started college last year I let her know that I would start socially transitioning and that basically she couldn’t stop me from doing it and I asked her for help with the HRT because I was only 17 to which she said no cause again she was scared I’d regret transitioning and blame her for letting me. She’s also said things before like how she’ll never support me mutilating my body and such.
Anyway when I came back for the summer I was already on HRT and she started asking me all kinds of ridiculous questions about what it would do to me. The latest of which happened this morning when she asked how my transition was going and “if my organs hurt” I said no and laughed a bit cause I thought it was funny but she got really upset saying how she had no idea how HRT was going to affect me and that she was just scared and curious and that there’s no books on this stuff/raising trans kids so she just doesn’t know what to say to me.
But at the same time she also thinks she’s my biggest supporter and said the we should get our boob jobs done at the same time and she said she already has a surgeon she wants me to use. Whenever I try to tell her that I’ve known the type of top surgery I’ve wanted since I was 14 and really wants a doctor who specializes in that and can do what I want she argues with me cause I’m being difficult.
But what I’m really upset about is what happened last night. I have my next HRT appointment in July and my doc said she really wanted me to be in therapy or have someone I can talk to about stuff and I really want doc to up my dose/keep giving me HRT so imma do what she asks. My mom is also onboard with me going to therapy and has even said that she’d start paying for my appointments both therapy and HRT plus actually paying for my HRT. So last night I signed up on one of those online therapy sites and matched with a gender affirming therapist. she is upset now because I’m not going to the office she wants me to go to even though I said I don’t like or feel comfortable there because the last time a I had therapy there my mom had told me “not to talk about gender stuff”. She’s says I’d be seeing a different therapist that specializes in gender affirming therapy and that I won’t even have to go in the office. But for me that’s not really the issue it’s that I don’t want her to be in control of where I go because I don’t trust her.
Now I’m worried that she won’t pay for any of the things she said she’d start to pay for. I don’t need her right now because I have a job and can pay for that stuff myself at the moment but I’m worried about when I get to school if I’ll have to choose over HRT or therapy or maybe even not being able to afford either. I have some money saved for my appointments during school because I guess deep down I knew I can’t trust her to help me with stuff but it’s not a lot of money and it will be hard for me to work during the school year cause of my classes.