u/AccomplishedLeopards

My husband died a year and half ago, and I’m still having trouble with thinking about myself. Our lives were intertwined, we chose them to be, and particularly the cancer journey brought us so close to each other, even more precious and valuable than anything in my life. I still feel this happened to us, our life was changed, our path was altered….i can’t seem to find a sense of “my “ life, what happened to “me”….and therefore I can’t think of what my life would be like going forward cs in my head, it’s still “our “ life…and I’m having trouble planning “our” life without him.

Does this make sense to anyone? How long did it take any of you to feel like you again as a person, and not you as part of the entity between you and your partner?

Hi everyone, my sweet spoo puppy is almost outgrowing his Medium sized crate. He’s coming up to 6 months and will of course get bigger.

Trying to decide between a larger wire crate indoors or an outdoor insulated dog cabin in the garden.

Indoor crate might be too large for my living space.
Plus outdoor cabin would allow him to go toilet in the garden as and when he needs it. The garden is enclosed and secure. Plus of course if too hot or too cold, I can bring him upstairs to my bed to sleep.

Any experience with cabins/ advice please?