u/AccomplishedTone8533

Hey! I’m a 25F lesbian from Lahore, and I’m looking to make some genuine queer friends in real life , like that would be great agr koi lahore sa hu tu . I don’t really have any queer friends around me, so I’d love to meet people I can actually hang out with, grab food or coffee, go on little adventures, explore random places, go on trips, or just chill and talk. I’m honestly not that Gen-Z type 😂 I’m a little old-school and my interests are probably a bit different. I’m more into cheap thrills than expensive or fancy places. I love spontaneous plans, adventures, going on trips, taking rides, exploring new places, and just doing things that make good memories. I don’t mind going somewhere nice or expensive once in a while, but it’s definitely not something I prefer regularly. I also love pets, listening to old music, and just having simple, fun plans with good company. Basically, I’m looking for people who enjoy hanging out, talking, exploring, and having a good time without everything needing to be super fancy or expensive.

I’d preferably like to connect with people who are 22–23+, especially lesbians or queer women. I’m just looking for genuine friendships and people to hang out with in real life, nothing hookup-related. If you’re from Lahore and interested, feel free to comment or DM me! And please, no straight men or gay men — I’m specifically looking for queer women/lesbians
And lastly, i would verify then i will talk, so pls men stay away

Hey i am 24f, I’ve been going through a really difficult situation recently. A secret about my sexuality got leaked, and I actually made a post here before about being scared to face everyone at university. Some of you might remember it. The positive comments gave me so much courage, and I ended up facing everyone with confidence.

Even my ex-best friend, who leaked the secret, seemed shocked to see me acting completely normal and confident. They were apparently telling people behind my back, “It looks like nothing even happened to her; she seems so happy.” Honestly, I feel like that’s a win-win for me because I didn’t let them see me break, and things have actually been getting better. I can face people normally now, and the situation doesn’t feel as overwhelming anymore.

But since that incident, I’ve completely lost my appetite, and I don’t understand why. My stomach feels hungry sometimes, and if I don’t eat, my body starts shaking, but mentally I have absolutely no desire to eat. When I force myself to eat, I start shivering (sometimes even down to my elbows), my heart starts racing/feeling uneasy, and I get really nauseous. Sometimes I feel like I’m going to throw up after eating.

The confusing part is that mentally I feel much better now, so I don’t know why my body is still reacting this way.

I don’t really have the resources to see a therapist right now. Has anyone experienced something similar after intense stress or anxiety? How did you deal with it, and did your appetite eventually return?

I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who has gone through something similar

Sorry i am posting again, i had to alternate smth in previous post so yeah

Hey everyone! I’m a 24-year-old woman who is attracted to women only, so you can say I’m a lesbian.

A little about me: I recently came out to my family, so they know about my sexuality now. They’re not exactly happy about it, but they’ve more or less reached a point where they tell me that I’m old enough to know what’s right and wrong for me, and that I should do what I feel is best for myself. It’s not an ideal situation, but I’m trying to make peace with it.

For a long time, I was really confused about my feelings, especially when it came to Islam and my sexuality. I used to struggle with a lot of guilt and confusion, but I think I’ve slowly reached a point where I’m accepting myself for who I am. I still have my moments of confusion, but overall, I feel like I’m learning to be more comfortable with myself.

I’m here because I’d genuinely like to meet someone and get to know them. I’m not looking for a hookup or anything casual. As I’m getting older, I’ve started feeling like having a genuine partner—someone I can share everything with, grow with, and maybe eventually spend my life with—would mean a lot to me.

When it comes to age, I’d preferably like to meet someone who’s 23 or older till 27 only I’m also completely okay with someone who is 21 or 22, but I’m not looking to connect with anyone younger than 21. I guess you could say I’m generally more into women who are around my age or a little older.
And i am into fem more but masc can give it try as well thankyouu

I’m not expecting to instantly get into a relationship either. I’d much rather start by talking, getting to know each other, seeing if we genuinely click, and then just letting things naturally go from there.

So if you’re a fellow lesbian who feels similarly and would like to talk, my DMs are open. :)

And to all the men—gay or straight—please stay out of my DMs 😭. I’m only interested in women, and I’ll be verifying that you’re actually a woman before getting too far into a conversation, so please don’t waste your time or mine.

Thank youuuu for reading!

Hey everyone! I’m a 24-year-old woman who is attracted to women only, so you can say I’m a lesbian.

A little about me: I recently came out to my family, so they know about my sexuality now. They’re not exactly happy about it, but they’ve more or less reached a point where they tell me that I’m old enough to know what’s right and wrong for me, and that I should do what I feel is best for myself. It’s not an ideal situation, but I’m trying to make peace with it.

For a long time, I was really confused about my feelings, especially when it came to Islam and my sexuality. I used to struggle with a lot of guilt and confusion, but I think I’ve slowly reached a point where I’m accepting myself for who I am. I still have my moments of confusion, but overall, I feel like I’m learning to be more comfortable with myself.

I’m here because I’d genuinely like to meet someone and get to know them. I’m not looking for a hookup or anything casual. As I’m getting older, I’ve started feeling like having a genuine partner—someone I can share everything with, grow with, and maybe eventually spend my life with—would mean a lot to me.

When it comes to age, I’d preferably like to meet someone who’s 23 or older. I’m also completely okay with someone who is 21 or 22, but I’m not looking to connect with anyone younger than 21. I guess you could say I’m generally more into women who are around my age or a little older.

I’m not expecting to instantly get into a relationship either. I’d much rather start by talking, getting to know each other, seeing if we genuinely click, and then just letting things naturally go from there.

So if you’re a fellow lesbian who feels similarly and would like to talk, my DMs are open. :)

And to all the men—gay or straight—please stay out of my DMs 😭. I’m only interested in women, and I’ll be verifying that you’re actually a woman before getting too far into a conversation, so please don’t waste your time or mine

I’m a 23-year-old woman, and I’ve struggled for a long time with being gay and reconciling it with my religion. Last year, I was going through a very difficult time after a relationship ended, and I had no one to talk to. I trusted a friend and shared my struggles with him privately.

He told two other people. One of them was my close friend, who then told her boyfriend. I found out yesterday that he had spread this information to several people in my class and around my university.

I feel completely devastated and exposed. I’m in my final year and only have four months left, but I genuinely don’t know how I’ll face people, go to college, or sit for my exams knowing that so many people may know something so personal about me.

My family knows and supports me, and they keep telling me that if they know and God knows, I shouldn’t be afraid of anyone else. But I’ve always been a very shy and anxious person, and I feel humiliated and terrified. I honestly don’t know how to cope with this, and I’m having thoughts of ending my life.

I just need advice on how to get through this and face university again

Hey i am 23f looking for only female friends to hangout with… just really exhausted from my university friends,
Little about me: i am fun, i love to do on concerts, on trips like northen etc, love do to fun stuff in general… please if anyone genuinely interested then please hit me up/ not just to waste time thankyou