r/LGBTQpakistan

Hi i am 18. The Rain has awakened the romantic in me that's why am looking for a boyfriend.

I am a athiest. I believe in equal rights for everyone, everyone should be able to believe in what they want. I also believe this country is FUCKED. I also believe that gay marriage should be allowed everywhere.

I love shows. Whenever i consume media i either am binge watching a show, or i am doom scrolling. When i do doomscroll my day is usually bad and sad. Anyhow i love Apothecary diaries (Best woman mc ever), Go for it nakamura, and modern family. Many other shows but of course.

I write. I used to draw but i got CHORNICALLY depressed so i quit it. Never tried again ever since i might again. I write poems and i WROTE A FANFICTION FOR MY Friend and it was her becoming a lesbian😭. It was her request tho so don't think of me as a creep who writes weird stuff about people..i am thinking of writing a light novel but oh well.

I do not study i do not do anything. I am in my second gap year i am trapped in my home family issues and stuff long story bla bla. If you want my location its in the Punjab radius preferably Islamabad but it's ok anyone can dm me.

Now lastly what type of men do i like. Sophisticated considerate kind men. Now i am 18 but i am not a twink. Sorry but i am not feminine besides theatrical hand gestures and low pitch voice when i am excited. I am fairly shy and awkward irl but not that much that i am a out cast (at least not anymore). I do not want any unsolicited nudes in my dm's please. I like older men since they are usually mature. This is EMBARSSING but i like masculine men. Call it environmental imprinting since i grew up in a village i like men with a beard like desi men.

I like desi men but not desi soch.

Anyhow that's the end of it feel free to reach out!

It's a bit of a throw in the dark. I am a gay guy who lives with my partner outside Pakistan who is a foreigner. I'd totally love to be a parent and adopt from Pakistan which is impossible. Won't it be nice to adopt a poor child from an orphanage in Pakistan and give them a fresh start to life with ample opportunities. Gotta be straight and Muslim and blah blah (usual beauraucratic demand from the government of Pakistan).We tried co-parenting with some straight girl or lesbian couples in Europe and so far no luck. It made me wonder if there has been a Pakistani gay parent? How did u do it how is your experience? How did u deal with fam bam.

last sunday i met this guy through reddit. he wanted to go to this event w me and i said yes even tho my inner voice was literally screaming “girl stay home” but i ignored it 😭 so i went to meet him and when i saw him… oh! he looked exactly like his blurry discord pfp. anyway we started talking and somehow every topic led back to crypto and “the grind.” he told me he was from another city and was “temporarily staying with his cousin until things pick up” so i got a lil concerned.

then we were sitting on a bench and he put his arm around me and i immediately smelled 14 different axe body sprays fighting for dominance 😭😭😭 i got so nervous not because he was attractive but because i genuinely couldnt breathe.

so we decided to meet again the other day and went to watch a movie. we picked the last seats in the theatre so we cld sit close together but this man kept explaining the plot every 3 minutes like sir WE ARE BOTH WATCHING 😭😭

after the movie we went to dinner and he spent the whole time showing me “sigma male motivation” reels and pictures of his gaming setup with LED lights. i swear at that moment all i could think about was going home and deleting my reddit account.

hes so unique ive genuinely never met anyone like him in my whole life. he argues with waiters, calls himself an empath, and said he doesnt believe in drinking water because “air has water in it already.”

now he went back again and hes in some random gc arguing abt anime power scaling so we can only talk once a week. i cant wait to not hear from him again 🥰😭

Unfortunately, people in Pakistan are legally restricted from accessing sex toys and even if they obtain them by any means, they are strongly shamed socially, culturally and within families for having them. As a result, people who engage in anal play which may be a natural urge or preference for them, sometimes start using unsafe objects for sexual relief such as toothbrushes, pens and other similar items

The problem is that when you examine these objects, you may think they are safe because they have no visibly sharp edges. But they are not safe at all. These materials are hard and still potentially sharp at a microscopic or structural level. The inner area around the anus is very soft and sensitive and such objects can cause small tears which may lead to bleeding during or after anal play or even during bowel movements

This can be terrifying or even psychologically traumatic. Some people try to ease their worry by being told by doctors that there is nothing serious after undergoing medical tests. They visit a gastroenterologist, general surgeon or colorectal surgeon.These doctors in most cases even in minor problems recommend medical tests such as colonoscopy or sigmoidoscopy to figure out the root cause. These tests are expensive and may not be affordable for students or financially dependent individuals

Earlier, AliExpress used to deliver sex toys like butt plugs, dildos and strap-ons and if you were lucky, they sometimes bypassed customs. Now they do not deliver such items anymore. Most websites in Pakistan advertising to sell sex toys are scams, they design their sites and prices to appear authentic but they are fraudulent. Some Instagram pages may be legitimate but sell very overpriced products such as vibrators

Things are different for gay men and women. When a person feels thirsty in summer, they may have both cold and warm water available and since cold water is more pleasurable, they are more likely to choose it. But another person may only have warm water available so even if they want something better, they still have to drink what is available to relieve their thirst

This is to make you understand that in receptive sex, a gay or bisexual man has only an anus and has to rely on it but women have both an anus and a vagina. Most women naturally find vaginal sex more pleasurable and less troublesome than anal sex but this is not the case with a gay or bisexual man who does not have anatomical alternatives for receptive sex

Apart from bleeding caused by tearing and sharp burn-like discomfort which are short-term conditions or injuries, there are also potential long-term medical risks of unsafe and careless anal sex

Everyone regardless of gender and sexuality should avoid using these unsafe objects

So, a few days ago I had posted in this community about how I wanted to go on a date with someone cuz I'm 20 and gay and single

Anyways, one guy from reddit dm'ed me

He wanted to keep things mysterious and lived near me in isb

And so he knew abt my uni and that's the only thing he knew about me

Anyways I decided to meet him and waited for him outside my uni gate as the plan was intended

But he stood me up and I waited for him for abt 30 mins in this heat 😭😭 and I was sleep deprived cuz I had just pulled an all nighter for my final.

Anyways he texted me later after I came home saying that he got stuck at his uni and couldn't make it, so he asked me to meet at his friends hostel 😭😭and I was like that is so sketchy - I asked him to meet me at a cafe (public space) and I invited my friend too who lived near (he's straight but very supportive of my side quests 🤪)

Anyways, I waited for him in the cafe and when he came he wasn't even coming inside the cafe and asked me to come outside and was so rude 😭

Anyways he finally came in and the dude was so chopped ISTG 😭🙏🏻 he was giving me the ick with his fake accents too

I couldn't keep up a straight face and didn't even make eye contact with him that much and got super awkward - though I did smile cuz I didn't wanna seem rude

He wanted to leave after 15 mins of our chat 😭but I made him stay 5 mins cuz my friend wasn't here yet and I wanted my friend to see my mystery date

my friend got stuck in traffic but then when he finally came 😭😭 I looked at my friend and immediately bursted out laughing

Like the minute he came up those stairs of the cafe I saw his face and burst out laughing 😭 ISTG never laughed this hard in a long time 😭

And I laughed so hysterically that everyone at the cafe looked at me 😭 as if I was having a stroke

My friend was pretending as if he didn't know me cuz he was being low-key in front of my random Reddit date

I rushed to the bathroom cuz I couldn't stop laughing and the washroom was closed 😭

I came back and kept on laughing

My friend sat somewhere else to keep an eye on me and the date

So my reddit date knew that I was friends with him cuz I couldn't stop laughing 😭 and looking at him

Anyways he also knew that I was way way way out of his league 😭and asked me to rate him on his physical appearances and if he was what I was expecting cuz I hadn't seen him before 😭😭

Anyways after I hysterically laughed my ass off

My reddit date literally ran cuz he thought I was crazy 😭😭 like he just shook my hand and said he had to bounce somewhere

Anyways I gave him my fake name and he didn't even have my number

Also he was broke as hell

My friend felt sorry for me and told me I'm too pretty to be doing things like these 😭😭

When I went home I blocked him cuz I didn't wanna waste his or my time by engaging further...

last sunday i met this guy through reddit. he wanted to go to this event w me and i said yes( he kind of convinced me cause i literally dont go out w anyone i just started talking to) so i went to met him and when i saw him oh lord he was so fine... omfg but anyway we started talking and all we talked alot about things and life and he told me what he is doing he was from another city and was on vacation so i got a lil sad but then we were j sitting on a bench and he put his arms around me and that was the something happened i got so nervous that it was literally visible😭😭😭😭 kher we got into each other and we decided to meet again the other day

so we met again the other day and went to watch a movie and we chose the last seats in the theatre so we cld j sit close to each other😭😭 and we did i put my head on him and watched the whole movie like this, hold hands and even made out at one point but i stopped him😭😭 so when the movie ended we decided to go dinner, so we went to this v cozy place where we were sitting and talking showing each other pictures of our friends and families and holding hands n j sitting v peacefully and i swear at that time i didnt care about anyone i was j so lost in him all i cld think about was him.

hes so nice and ive actually never met anyone like him in my whole life. he cares about his family and hes the only son and he lives alone in pakistan and he cares about ppl hes so genuine that you could just tell by looking at his face

now he went back again and hes in pma so we can only talk once a week i cant wait to talk to him again i miss him sm😣😭

Soo many weirdos here nowadays, the cool, genuine and actual people are hiding. Such a shame 😔.

so, nearly three weeks ago I shared an incident with y’all as a cautionary tale.

I think that we should also speak of the good that comes after the bad.
I met someone last Thursday and it healed me in a way. made me less scared of new people.

he pulled me in almost instantly. the minute he stepped out of his (nice) car, it was over for me! 😩
he looked better than in his pictures. in the age of AI, it shocks me when someone not only meets but rises above expectations.
also, he had a chain on. accessories tend to be a weakness of mine.

he’s the only son so he feels the weight of expectations. I asked him if he wished for a brother (someone to divide his responsibilities with) but he said he’s very close with his sisters and couldn’t imagine life without them as he talks to them daily.

he sent me a video the other day of him at a mandi. he was with his sister because his brother-in-law wants Eid (sacrificial) animals to care for. thought that was funny.

he’s also a surgeon. educated men..🫦.

the surprising part: whenever I text him, I get a response within thirty minutes. this is a foreign concept to me. the guys I’ve been interested in have left me hanging so often. to not have to wait on someone? that’s half of what I’ve been wanting.

mind you, this man is 28M while I’m 23M.
so I knew going in that it wasn’t going to turn into anything but I love whatever this is.
I just need to find a way to keep his attention.

(the sex was nice too.)

Okay so i posted last night about how I had an unprotected encounter and wanted to get pep .

Someone reached out to me( thankful Iyamm) and thru them i got in touch with this guy who works with dostana (an NGO that looks out for us) and he told me to get to mayo hospital and guided me thru it too. I went there , got tested ( negative ) .

Im starting PEP too from tday .

Now I dont know if i contracted the virus from the encounter ...ill get to know after getting tested again (after finishing the med course -28 days). Hopefully not and if so PEP is gonna block that bich out.

I just wanna say that dont be scared to reach out.

If u are going thru anything similar ....do reach out .

And do take precaution.

Put yourself above and dont take words for the truth.

(Im happy)

Hii i am looking for lesbians/bi woman friends totally platonic. I am very very gay, a little but zesty and all. I love apothecary diaries, go for it nakamura house md in shows. I loathe Maria B.

My profile is a open book if you want to know about me. Gays can also of course message me but i am primarily looking for woman friends because i am TIRED of men TIRED of my father.

Ummm im 18 ....and i had an encounter with someone who said he was negative ....(iv never tested myself )...

And it has been more than 12 hours and a white patch has appeared on the inside of my mouth (im scared its herpes)....but that takes a long time to show symptoms.

Now these sores are pretty common anyways....and im not much scared about those.....but the thing that there was penetration without protection is killing me ....im stressed already ..plz dont come at me. I know im at fault.

But I wanna take precaution and I read PEP is taken within 72 hours of the encounter. I am within the window.

I wanna be relieved in this part atleast.

I just wanna know how do I get it , keeping it confidential and not making it a big thing.

If someone knows plz do telllll.....im in lhr btw.

Im scared as hell ( dont say pehle sochna tha ....🙏)

So hi , I'm Zain and I'm 20 . I'm from Islamabad. And that's all for the introduction .

So the thing is I'm sick of my life . I'm a art student ,and I don't understand memes , so some people usually call me uncultured.

Laikin Khair I'm super depressed because of my parents , I hate them.so much , I have tried to literally off myself so many times . Because of them .

They keep on telling me :

1. I'm a good for nothing , because they think I'm not a good son . I'm an art student our Meri class mein Meray SB se achay grades atay Hain . Laikin my parents aren't happy with that .

2. I'm not allowed to leave the house . Meine aj thak koi gandagi nahi ke , but my parents they don't let me out . Itna yaar betiyoon ko bhi nahi koi krta .

3. Koi agar friends bahir Khana khanay jayain , I'm not even allowed to go there .

4. Koi university mein event ho . Muje ijazat nahi milti , kiunke Mera ABA g bohot kanjoos Hain .

5. Mein agr agay se jawab de doon tou woh azaab ban jata he .

6 . My parents hate my body , mein Kafi slim Hoon so they hate that , ke Tum ptlay kiun ho , kiunke logh jesay ke kaam wali aunty mama se kehti Hain ke apka beta SB se chota lgta he . .

7 . My father tells me ke mein university mein larkiyoon ke Saath reh reh kr Pagal ho gaya Hoon . Yaar mein Gay Hoon , woh dostain Hain . Why can't my parents understand it . I wish I could be honest about this .

8 . Mein aik bohot bura beta Hoon , apnay parents ke Nazar mein . Mein Jo bhi kroon inn ko taqleefaon hoti Hain .

9 . Mein agr khuch Keh doon ek khuch chahiye he tou in. Ke pass tou paise he Hamesha ke trha khatam ho jatay Hain .

10 ..Meray parents ne muje forcefully engagement krwa de phupo ke beti ke Saath ( shadi nahi Sirf engagement)

11. Agr mein Kisi se messages pr baat kr loon ya phir. Use kr loon tou Inhain pechas / loose motion lag jatay Hain

12. Meri taqreeban Roz he kutte wali krtay Hain .

13. Meray aba ne muje kaha tha ke tumhain palnay se behtar tha mein kutta Paal leta , Kam se Kam woh wafadaar HOTA. Jabke yaar meinne aj thak konsi maut de he in. Ko .

14. Meray patents bs ghareeb our ajeeb Hain , they call me stuff like harami , Kiya , kanjar normal mein .

15 . They nah me about not being wafadaar to them , kiunke meine dubaya nahi tha .

Abh Tum logh he btao Kya kroon mein!