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Note: This has to be said but please give it a watch with undivided attention and provide serious answers instead of dismissive shallow ones. I understand that we have every right to be angry of Islam for its harms on countless of Muslims and ex-Muslims (like us). But we also have to be intellectually honest and respectful when it comes to engaging and arguing with Muslims and about the validity of Islam itself. This is so that Muslims will hopefully get to see us as dignified human beings who has the right to leave Islam and co-exist peacefully and respectfully.

Here we go again 🙄

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Hey everyone,

I’m a non-Muslim guy planning to marry a Malay girl. As you know, the law in Malaysia requires me to officially convert to Islam for the marriage to be legal.

Realistically, I don't plan on practicing the religion. I won't be doing solat, fasting during Ramadan, or changing my lifestyle. I still plan to eat pork and drink alcohol. My partner is aware of this and is completely fine with it, as she isn't strictly religious herself.

However, I'm trying to gauge how realistic this is in the long run. I'd love to hear from anyone who is in a similar marriage, or who converted solely on paper.

• How do you handle family gatherings with her side vs. your side?
• Do you face any issues with JAKIM/JAIS or general scrutiny in Selangor/KL?
• If you have kids, how are you handling their official religion and upbringing?
• Do you have any regrets, or advice on things we should prepare for?

Appreciate any honest experiences or insights you can share. Thanks!

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Title says it all.

Please give substantial answers and reasons, and not shallow one-liners.

Gemini summaries:

In this video, Siti Kasim discusses the complexities and legal challenges surrounding the issue of leaving Islam (apostasy) in Malaysia.

​Key Highlights and Arguments

• ​Legal Discrepancies: Siti highlights the conflict between the Federal Constitution, which guarantees freedom of religion under Article 11, and various state-level Shariah laws that criminalize or severely restrict the process of leaving Islam [01:21].

• ​Role of Shariah Courts: She explains that in many states, the Shariah Court has the sole jurisdiction to determine if a person is no longer a Muslim. However, these courts often prioritize "rehabilitation" rather than granting the application to leave [05:42].

• ​The "Freedom to Dignity" Message: Wearing a shirt with the slogan "Freedom to Dignity," Siti emphasizes that the right to choose one's faith is a matter of personal dignity and human rights that should not be dictated by the state [00:15].

• ​Social and Legal Consequences: The video touches upon the practical difficulties faced by those who wish to leave the faith, including the inability to change their religious status on national ID cards (MyKad), which affects marriage, inheritance, and burial rights [12:35].

• ​Call for Reform: Siti advocates for a more compassionate and legally consistent approach that respects individual autonomy and aligns state laws with the overarching principles of the Federal Constitution [25:10].

​The video serves as a critical commentary on the intersection of religion, law, and human rights within the Malaysian context.

Old news but still relevant.