u/According_Fan290

Hi I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with my partner(30F) for the past 1.5 years.
I started talking to her around November/December 2024. Met her around January. Since then, we have been together.

In the last few months, we told our families about each other, there were other challenges from her parents but with time they accepted it.

My family was comfortable with a love marriage and they were open to meeting her and her family.
My family just wanted to check for any dosh in any of our kundlis. Turns out she was manglik and I am not. One of the astrologer told us she is high manglik and I am not, we will face disturbances in married life and it will not be very smooth.

I was not happy with the reading tried showing our kundlies to multiple astrologer and all were saying the same thing. Someone said "Mars is there on birth house".

I would appreciate it if someone could guide me on this. Are we really gonna face challenges and not proceed? This gives me so many doubts in my head. My parents are hesitant now. I am really confused right now.

Hi, I am 29M. I was in a relationship, and it ended. Our kundlis did not match. It was 1.5 years relationship.

I am turning 30 in the next couple of months. Do I have a delayed marriage in my life? How will my life be? I don't know what life has in store for me.

Hi, I am 29F. I was in a relationship, and it ended. Our kundlis did not match. It was 1.5 years relationship.

I am turning 30 in the next couple of weeks. Do I have a delayed marriage in my life? How will my life be? I am already going through a tough phase in terms of my career as well. I don't know what life has in store for me.

Hi I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with my partner(29F) for 1.6 years. 2-3 months, we told our families about our relationship. Initially, her parents were not ready, but slowly they accepted the relationship and decided to talk to my parents.

I come from the Brahmin community, and she is from the Jaat community. My family wanted to do matchmaking and see if there is no major dosh. We both got to know she is manglik, whereas I am not.

The astrologer told us Mars is sitting on her janam sthan. There will always be a problem between the two of us, and marriage is not recommended.

Now there are 2 issues, first is the above one, and second is the mindset of my parents that manglik and non-manglik marriages don't work. There will be issues between us, and there will always be health issues as well.

Can someone please guide me on what my approach should be? Are our charts really not aligned, and will we face issues in our marriage? Also, the astrologer told us she is a high manglik and not anshik manglik. Should we avoid this marriage or try to find some solutions?

Hi I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with my partner(29F) for 1.6 years. 2-3 months, we told our families about our relationship. Initially, her parents were not ready, but slowly they accepted the relationship and decided to talk to my parents.

I come from the Brahmin community, and she is from the Jaat community. My family wanted to do matchmaking and see if there is no major dosh. We both got to know she is manglik, whereas I am not.

The astrologer told us Mars is sitting on her janam sthan. There will always be a problem between the two of us, and marriage is not recommended.

Now there are 2 issues, first is the above one, and second is the mindset of my parents that manglik and non-manglik marriages don't work. There will be issues between us, and there will always be health issues as well.

Can someone please guide me on what my approach should be? Are our charts really not aligned, and will we face issues in our marriage? Also, the astrologer told us she is a high manglik and not anshik manglik. Should we avoid this marriage or try to find some solutions?

Hi I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with my partner(29F) for 1.6 years. 2-3 months, we told our families about our relationship. Initially, her parents were not ready, but slowly they accepted the relationship and decided to talk to my parents.

I come from the Brahmin community, and she is from the Jaat community. My family wanted to do matchmaking and see if there is no major dosh. We both got to know she is manglik, whereas I am not.

The astrologer told us Mars is sitting on her janam sthan. There will always be a problem between the two of us, and marriage is not recommended.

Now there are 2 issues, first is the above one, and second is the mindset of my parents that manglik and non-manglik marriages don't work. There will be issues between us, and there will always be health issues as well.

Can someone please guide me on what my approach should be? Are our charts really not aligned, and will we face issues in our marriage? Also, the astrologer told us she is a high manglik and not anshik manglik. Should we avoid this marriage or try to find some solutions?

Hi, I am 29F. I was in a relationship with my partner(29M) for 1.6 years. We told our families about our relationship. Initially, my family was not ready to accept the relationship because of different cultures, different caste, and other reasons.

Recently, my father talked to my partner's father to meet and see things getting started. My partner's family wants to do kundli matching, not very deep, but if we both don't carry any major dasha. He is from the Brahmin community, and I am from the Jaat.

Now, while matching, we got to know I am a high manglik and he is non manglik. I am not Angshilk Manglik, and Manglik effects are still there.

The astrologer told us there is no match, and we should avoid marriage, and we will always fight and will face health-related issues. This thing is told by multiple astrologers. Multiple astrologers told us the same thing. He is trying to convince his parents, but they are scared and feel we both will face problems throughout our lives.

I don't know what I should do. We are not sure how we can change parents' stance on this. The time has been really tough for me. My career is also not on track. I don't know what to do in life. I don't know about the marriage aspect of my life. I am really not motivated and have no hope for my life.

Are we really not compatible, and should I accept this is the end? He is a really nice human, and we both don't want to give up.

Hi, I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with my partner for the last 1.5 years. Recently, our families talked about marriage, and my family believes in kundli matching only for the important aspects.

Astrologer, we showed our kundli to told us that my partner(29F) is very high on manglik. She rejected the match in 5 mins. She said the marriage will not be successful and there will be lots of challenges and problems in our life. Now my family is adamant that they don't want to move ahead with the wedding, especially knowing they have this thought on their mind.

Can someone please see our charts and tell will their be problems in our marriage? Should I not proceed? Should I try to convince my parents? Are we not both compatible?

I have attached both the charts. First is my partners chart and second one is mine.

Hi, I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 1.6 years. Recently, we did our kundli matching, and we got to know she is high manglik.

The astrologer, without any hesitation, rejected our match and said we would face challenges and issues in our marriage. She didn't even check other aspects, suggesting she is high manglik and not even anshik manglik.

I have attached both of our charts. Can someone tell is it really true that married life will be full of challenges and concerns, and if there are any remedies?

Hi, I am 29M. I have been in a relationship with her for the past 1.6 years. The majority of the things are good, but sometimes during arguments, she ends up saying things that are disrespectful.

I understand every relationship needs effort and lots of work needs to be put in. I am no saint as well. I also make mistakes. I believe some things are genuinely non-negotiables.
How do we align as partners? Will our future life be happy and not to worry about anything major? Also, can someone comment on her career aspect? She is really worried about it. I have both the charts. First is mine, and the other is hers.

Hi, I am 29F. I have been in a relationship with 29M for the past 1.5 years. We both feel compatible and want to get married. Recently, we have told our families about eachother. Initially, my family was not accepting it, but now they are coming to terms with the relationship.

The issue is that my family wants me to get married this year only. Since I'll turn 30. Since my career is not on track and I am not working, my boyfriend is saying his family won't say yes to marriage. Within his family, there are 3 weddings on his relatives' maternal and paternal sides. He is saying that if we can get married next year in November or December. My career will be on track, and things will be much better.

My family is facing lots of pressure and criticism, that why he is not getting me married. Also, I have a younger sister who is 1.5 years younger than me. Next year in November or December, he wants her to get married as well. He is facing a health condition as well.

I am not sure what to do. I have attached both charts. The first is mine; second is my boyfriend's chart. He has constantly supported me in getting a new job, but things are not working for me. I don't know what to do. Should I delay my marriage or should I listen to my father?

Hi, I am 29F. I seriously don't know where my life is heading. I have been in a relationship with 29M for 1.5 years. Recently, we told our parents about our relationship. Initially, my parents were reluctant, but later on they accepted the relationship. They're still taking time, and it is needing some convincing. The relationship was also facing some ups and downs, and he didn't want to continue because of a few of my mistakes and behavioural issues. Though we found common ground, I told him I'll change.

The second problem is related to my career. Right now, I am jobless. His parents won't be convinced of me. Career has always been important for both of us, and we always talked about it. I have government papers and still have no success. I was teaching in school, and the job is also not high-paying. I don't know what to do about this aspect.

I'll turn 30 this July. Is marriage even on the cards? When am I destined to get married?

I have attached both the charts first is mine, second is my partner's. Will we be happy together? Will we lead a good and healthy life? When will I get success in my career?

Hi, I am 29F. I am genuinely concerned and anxious about my future. I have been in a relationship for the past 1.5 years. Recently told my family about us. Initially, they were reluctant, but now slowly they are accepting the relationship.
Right now, I am not working throughout the relationship, career is an important aspect for both of us. We both come from middle-class families, though in terms of wealth, my family is higher than his.

For his family, my career is important to them. My partner believes finances do create an issue in marriages. My family is also pushing me for an arranged marriage, and they are seeing rishtas as well. Since his family hasn't met my family.

I seriously don't know what to do in this. Do our charts align? Are we good for each other? Will finances create an issue long-term in our relationship? Will we live a happy life if somehow we overcome this situation?

Can someone tell me about my career? I have been struggling for the past 3 years. I have given the government paper, and no success in that. I don't know which field to switch. Whether I should try corporate.

I have attached both the charts. First is mine. Second is my partner's chart(29M).