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26F Feeling completely lost, career stagnation despite potential, and life moving entirely out of my control (Quick marriage & sudden baby)
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26F Feeling completely lost, career stagnation despite potential, and life moving entirely out of my control (Quick marriage & sudden baby)

I’m reaching out because I feel completely stuck, overwhelmed, and completely lost in life right now—especially when it comes to my career. I feel like I have hidden potential, but somehow nothing in my life has turned out the way I planned or hoped, and it feels like everything is moving in the wrong direction.
A bit of background and context on how things have gone:
Career: I work in IT, but I genuinely dislike my job. I’ve been trying to figure out my next steps or a pivot, but I feel paralyzed and don't know how to proceed further.
Life & Control: It feels like major milestones happened completely out of my control. I had a very quick, rushed marriage, and then a baby followed shortly after. While I wanted to get married and have a family eventually, everything happened so fast and under circumstances where I had zero agency or control over the timeline.
The Overall Vibe: It feels like life took the steering wheel, and I'm just watching from the back seat. I look back and wonder where my potential went and why nothing seems to align or flow naturally.

I like teaching , or other areas where communication is involved but I am not sure if i can do anything anymore . Can anyone guide me in career par

Birth details : 03 march 2000 8:05 pm Madikeri Karnataka India

u/Important-Name-4358 — 4 days ago
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27M career and relationship advice.

I’ve been struggling with addictions for a long time now, recently quit. Jobless from 4 years. I wanted to know when will i get a job and if it’ll take care of my financial troubles and how soon. And also if, the addictions will trouble me again and I haven’t had any luck with relationships and when will that change if ever?

u/vardhan17 — 4 days ago
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30f . Why so much career and marriage delay

Hi everyone ,
Past few years I have been trying for govt exams and never got succeeded . I get rejected in mains or interview . Multiple rejections made me exhausted .
Currently I have lost hope in my life .
Family is pressuring for marriage and I have never dated anyone in past and am hell scared for marriage . Got rejected by multiple arrange marriage proposal
When will things get settled ?
Would be helpful if u can suggest any remedies

u/Mountain-Morning5462 — 5 days ago
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Suggest if this guy has cheating tendencies

I an currently married to this guy but want to know if he will ever cheat or if he has cheating tendencies or hidden motives.

u/Commercial-Pass-9431 — 5 days ago
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40 married male . No body around me to show affection on me. Will this change? Will anybody come in my personal/professional/ personal life to show affection on me

u/ApartPrinciple776 — 7 days ago
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36/F-never married. Is it fair to assume marriage and children are denied? What about job? I’m currently unemployed also… 😩

u/smilesunshine89 — 8 days ago

Separated, Husband Chose parents over saving the marriage. What’s the next chapter of life like ?

A separated female here.

He always said the right things but rarely did them. He promised we would plan a baby when I was ready, since it is my body, yet after marriage everything changed. Every decision about our future was discussed with his parents, especially his influential mother, never with me as a couple.

No privacy, constant interference, and whenever we fought his mother would step in. I was still okay living in the joint setup. I just wanted to feel like it was my home too. But he never prioritized us.

After years of waiting I finally got fed up of his way or highway and left. It has been 1.6 years. He and his family still act like it is all my issue. He has made zero move.
Now I also worry about health, safety, and the reality of being a single middle class woman in cities where flats cost crores.
Looking for Vedic insights on the chart. Any chance of reconciliation, or is a future committed partner possible? And what about the financial safety net ?

u/anywayyy-26 — 8 days ago

Wife ran, lost job on the same day!

Hello, I am husband and looking for some desperate insights. Dont know what happened by on 20th Oct 2025, i lost my job and my spouse. Since then i am not able to to secure either. I had lot of differences from my wife from day 1 in 4 years of marriage. She left the marriage twice but after sometime wants to come back and show affection. However, on the day of mediation- she backs out. We both can’t live together nor live apart. I feel something karmic. My wife is immature and cherry is that her family supports her and never hear other side of the story. Her family is another reason my marriage is collapsing. But Now I am seriously thinking to get over this marriage.

On the career front, i was thriving up until marriage i.e., 2022 but after marriage, this whole ordeal became centre of my universe and couldn’t concentrate on career or you can say became lazy. I am unable to secure any job since last 1 year and am really hopeless and depressed now. Is there any good chance in near future to secure a job?

What do you all expert think about my marriage and career?

u/pure_white_devil — 8 days ago

Separated Female, Husband Chose parents over saving marriage. ( reposting as earlier image wasnt getting uploaded)

A separated female here.

He always said the right things but rarely did them. He promised we would plan a baby when I was ready, since it is my body, yet after marriage everything changed. Every decision about our future was discussed with his parents, especially his influential mother, never with me as a couple.

No privacy, constant interference, and whenever we fought his mother would step in. I was still okay living in the joint setup. I just wanted to feel like it was my home too. But he never prioritized us.

After years of waiting I finally got fed up of his way or highway and left. It has been 1.6 years. He and his family still act like it is all my issue. He has made zero move.
Now I also worry about health, safety, and the reality of being a single middle class woman in cities where flats cost crores.
Looking for Vedic insights on the chart. Any chance of reconciliation, or is a future committed partner possible? And what about the financial safety net ?

u/anywayyy-26 — 8 days ago

Sensitive Moon. Failed Career. Failed Marriage. 33F. Is there anything good I can hope for to have a decent will to live the next 30-40 years?

Things started going down pretty bad from 2016 onwards. Any insights on past life karma?

u/MysteriousYou8672 — 8 days ago
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Love life/ Relationships/ Marriage

I have been in two relationships, both of them cheated. Trued dating again but he was just playing around, feeling really sad because i thought that he might be the one. Please tell me more about my marriage, relationships & will i get the type of partner i desire or not?

u/pizzalover1602 — 8 days ago

31M, Divorced and looking for clarity on future relationship.

Hi, thank you for stopping by.

My DOB is July 17, 1995, at 7:30 PM. My parents had recorded my birth time as 9:55 PM, which led all the astrologers to confirm that I was Manglik. This caused significant strain in my marriage, eventually leading to our separation, and I lived under the label of Kuja Dosha.

However, after discovering my correct birth time, I now know that I am not Manglik.
What are my future prospects for marriage? Will I find success in my relationships? I am currently doing well in the tech field.

Thank you in advance.

u/Distinct_Nature3560 — 8 days ago
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My love life or career. Plz tell. 24F.

How much wealth I'll be able to accumulate ? How'll be my marriage ? Please suggest.

u/Fantastic-qween — 8 days ago

Hi need serious help, Sm1 said there is no positive in this union.

Hi, please let me know if this union is failed from the beginning. Its really bothering me. My partner is hard core astrology believer. I do belief to an extend. Sm1 said that if there is nothing positive in this marriage which I find hard to believe. Im having hard time to understand this.

u/Slight_Flight_682 — 8 days ago

Longevity prediction please

been having severe health anxiety lately , can someone please tell me if I'm gonna make it till my 70's or no !? Be fr! So I can plan ahead. I'm not scared of death but I just don't like surprises lol

u/BusinessAudience2186 — 8 days ago