
26F Feeling completely lost, career stagnation despite potential, and life moving entirely out of my control (Quick marriage & sudden baby)
I’m reaching out because I feel completely stuck, overwhelmed, and completely lost in life right now—especially when it comes to my career. I feel like I have hidden potential, but somehow nothing in my life has turned out the way I planned or hoped, and it feels like everything is moving in the wrong direction.
A bit of background and context on how things have gone:
Career: I work in IT, but I genuinely dislike my job. I’ve been trying to figure out my next steps or a pivot, but I feel paralyzed and don't know how to proceed further.
Life & Control: It feels like major milestones happened completely out of my control. I had a very quick, rushed marriage, and then a baby followed shortly after. While I wanted to get married and have a family eventually, everything happened so fast and under circumstances where I had zero agency or control over the timeline.
The Overall Vibe: It feels like life took the steering wheel, and I'm just watching from the back seat. I look back and wonder where my potential went and why nothing seems to align or flow naturally.
I like teaching , or other areas where communication is involved but I am not sure if i can do anything anymore . Can anyone guide me in career par
Birth details : 03 march 2000 8:05 pm Madikeri Karnataka India