u/VehicleSudden3636

They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but in my case, it turned the woman I love into a stranger. Looking back, I always thought we had a balanced relationship, but maybe I was just blinded by how much I loved her. She had moments of deep immaturity she would accuse me of cheating out of nowhere and demand I cut off my friends. Because I loved her, I happily did it just to give her peace of mind. I’m a bit skinny, and she would sometimes body-shame me, calling me malnourished. But the next day, she would be sweet and normal again. I brushed it off as immaturity. Through all our arguments, I never threatened her, and I never once thought of leaving. When she decided to move abroad for her Master’s degree, I was her biggest cheerleader. I supported her dreams purely, without a single selfish or materialistic thought in my heart. But six months after she left, everything changed. A cold detachment crept in. She started doing things we had explicitly agreed not to do things we both knew triggered our anxiety. At first, I felt the disrespect, but I stayed quiet to keep the peace. Then came the day that broke my heart. Out of nowhere she told me that when she was back in our home country, she was fully under my control.I was stunned. Control? All I ever wanted was to keep her safe from a cruel world. I had given up my own friends for herbyet she painted me as the controlling one. Her sudden ignorance and coldness became too heavy for my heart to carry. I finally lost my patience. I snapped and said hurtful things the exact kind of things she used to threaten me with. Instead of talking it out, she retaliated by reaching out to my sisters, telling my family how "bad" I was to her. My friends warned me. They told me to stay away, saying she wasn't a good person. But even after she dragged my family into it, I took a stand for her. I defended her against my own family. My reward? Whenever I try to reach out to her now, I find out I am blocked. I am completely torn. I know the internet's default answer is always "just move on and find someone better." But I chose her the day she proposed to me, and I have given this relationship my absolute best. I genuinely love her, even though it's highly likely she doesn't want to speak to me right now. So, I am asking for your absolute best, most honest advice. Will maintaining No contact will be helpful? I fear she might get into wrong hands.

I dont think people talk enough about the sheer meditative trance of being between a womans legs. To me it is not just a prelude or a task it is a high art form and a slow burn devotion that starts long before my tongue even touches skin. It starts with the scent. That intoxicating honeyed natural musk that is uniquely yours. I want to bury my face in it breathing you in until my lungs are heavy with you. I want to linger there in the quiet feeling the heat radiating off your thighs and watching the way your breath hitches just because I am close. When I finally move in I am not in a rush. Why would I be? I want to taste every single drop of you. I want to start with soft feather light kisses on your inner thighs working my way up until you are practically begging for the friction. There is something so profoundly serotonin releasing about the rhythm of it. The way I can feel your pulse fluttering against my lips. The way your hips start to find a melody of their own arching upward seeking that pressure. I love the consistency of it the slow swirling laps the deliberate flick of the tongue the way I can use the tip to find that one perfect spot and just stay there until the rest of the world ceases to exist for you. I want to lose myself in the sound of your voice those low guttural moans that vibrate through my jaw. I want to feel your fingers tangling in my hair pulling me closer grounding yourself as you start to drift away. The best part is the moment you finally break. That beautiful shivering surrender where your muscles tense and then melt like warm wax. I love staying right there through the aftershocks tasting the sweetness of your release keeping you in that hazy golden glow where you feel completely safe and completely adored. It is not just about the climax. It is about the worship. It is about the fact that in those moments my only purpose in the universe is to make sure you feel like the goddess you are. I could stay down there forever. Just me you and the rhythm of your pleasure. It is the most relaxing soul stirring place in the world.

So here’s a weird situation and I want an outside perspective.

Back when me and my ex were dating, I once asked a random guy from her followers list to remove her and he actually did.

After we broke up, she added that same guy again, pretty obviously to get a reaction out of me.

Now here’s where it gets strange.

Out of nowhere, this guy unblocked me and started abusing me. I hadn’t spoken to him at all before that. It felt really random.

I showed it to my sister, because my ex had previously told her to keep me away from her. When my sister confronted my ex about it, my ex swore she had nothing to do with it.

Right after that confrontation, the guy blocked me again.

Then a few days later, he unblocked me again but didn’t say anything this time. Just… weird behavior.

What I don’t understand is: If this is just between me and my ex, why is this third guy getting involved at all? And why does his behavior change right after she’s confronted?

It feels like too much of a coincidence.

So I’m trying to figure out: Is he just a random drama guy, or is my ex actually feeding him something behind the scenes?

Would appreciate honest opinions.

Hello, I hope everyone here is doing well in their lives.

I’m a 26-year-old university student, and lately I’ve been feeling lost. People around me—friends and others my age are earning well and have stable careers while i still haven’t found a clear path for myself. I didn’t have anyone to properly guide me before and even now, I’m trying to figure things out on my own.

Recently, I met a friend of a friend who has strong skills in automation and is doing really well financially. Seeing that inspired me, and I told him I wanted to pursue the same path. But instead of encouragement, he told me it’s extremely difficult, that I wouldn’t be able to do it, and even said he can judge from someone’s face whether they’ll succeed or not. That really broke me.

Despite that, I have a mother who has high hopes for me, and I don’t want to let her down. More importantly, I don’t want to give up on myself. I truly want to pursue automation with full focus and dedication. I’m ready to work hard i just need direction.

I would deeply appreciate any guidance on where to start, what skills to focus on, and what mistakes to avoid. Your advice could genuinely change my life.

Thank you.