I 20 M & single i genuinely need advise
(English isn’t my first language so please cooperate 😭) i’ve had felt that looks was one of the reason which made me think i’d no gf , so i’ve had been working on my looks like going to the gym learning how to dress up , so now i feel I’m attractive enough or atleast i’m not that ugly or just better than the average guys , but still it gets to hard to getting into a relationship, like initially if I’m talking to someone i feel like there’s some kind of attraction building on based on the personality i had but in longterm it fades away , ( rn! I’m talking to a girl umm basically we mostly just talks on the call and i feel like 80% of the time i’m the one putting on the effort , maybe because she’s pretty , but seeing this makes me feel like i should just back off and start searching for some another girl , but then the same thing could happen with some other girl i guess and then i’m done 😭 i’m nowhere gonna get into a relationship 😭
TL;DR
There’s a pretty girl I’m talking to these days and I’m thinking of just backing off cuz it feels like 80% of the time i’m putting of the effort which is draining me off