Be kinder to yourself, if possible.
Over the years, I’ve read a lot of posts from ugly women saying things like, “I don’t deserve kindness, pleasure, orgasms, etc.”
I can see why people feel that way, but I’m here to kindly remind you that you absolutely DO deserve all of those things and more! ❤️
If you want to pleasure yourself and have an orgasm, then you should do it as much as you want, whenever you want!
If you want to buy clothes that make you feel good, then do it!
If you want to get your hair and nails done because it makes you feel better about yourself, then go for it!
These are just a few examples, but my point is, life sucks and ugliness already robs us of so many good things in life… don’t let it take away everything from you.
We only get one chance at this and despite being ugly, I refuse to deny myself things just because I’m not beautiful.
If anything, I think women like us deserve things like pleasure even more than regular people because ugliness makes our lives so terrible already.
I hate to use the phrase “treat yourself” because I feel like that term is played out. So, instead I’ll say - never deny yourself anything. Be kinder to yourself. ❤️