In 2017 or 2018, I went to a panic at the disco concert in cleveland OH, and there was a fan project for girls/girls/boys where you held up a colored heart, depending what color by your section, on your phone flashlight. I still have the heart, but i cannot for the life of me remember what tour it was. any help is appreciated! thank you!
Okay so for the past like, week or so, my bsf is not acting normally, or how she used to act. Last monday, my bsf, lets call her B, got broken up by her bf of a year and a half. I comforted her, and gave as much advice as I could. Then, she became kinda okay friends with her other ex bf, lets call him E.
Now E and B invited me to calls, but then just kinda started leaving me out. One night, me, B and E were on the phone, and she was talking about how she was texting her most recent ex bf, the one that broke up with her monday, C, and even texting his mom.
I said "okay, why are we still texting C and his mom? he did you so insane!" cause he did her really dirty over the whole week of drama from the breakup. she said "i love you, but now is not a time to judge." and i assured her i wasnt judging, just confused, because youre never gonna get over a guy if youre still texting him and his family. and she responded just saying she wanted closure.
I told her nicely, that if someone disrespects you hard enough, closure doesnt even matter anymore. After that, she just left the call. Thats when B started not inviting me to calls anymore. She started flirting with E, which I don't care about, but think is a little weird considering her and C broke up days before that.
now the other day at lunch, I'm eating my food, turn around for about 2 seconds, and when I look back, her and my other bsf, S, were pouring water in my rice. I got mad, and said "you guys need to fucking quit." because this isnt B's first time trying to mess up my lunch. When B spoke up, she said "well its made with water anyway!" and i responded "i dont give a fuck."
I was clearly upset, because i already wasnt having a great day, and they were both giggling at me. I just basically avoided them at our table the rest of lunch, getting up and talking to other friends when I could. Now today, shes sitting at lunch with a girl she literally hated and talked hella shit about a month ago, and im mad. Shes leaving me, and my other bsf, S, for a girl she doesnt even like. Shes been hanging around her more than me, and literally hung up on me mid sentence when we were on call yesterday.
I dont think she sees me as a bsf anymore, and it really hurts, because we've been bestfriends for 2 years now. I just feel replaced, and really dumb. she even has been telling me to shut up, (maybe jokingly, idk) and giving me weird looks.
am I doing too much or is she actually just trying to drop me?