My roommate gave his mom a key and she comes over when neither of us are home
Found this out in the weirdest way. Came home early from work yesterday and his mom was in our kitchen wiping down the cabinets. She doesn't live nearby either, its like a 35 minute drive.
Apparently he's had a spare key made for her for months and she comes over every couple weeks while we're both working to "help keep the place in order." I started connecting dots and realized she's probably the reason stuff in the kitchen randomly moves around.
What actually pissed me off is she mentioned that my bedroom "looks much better with the desk by the window." I never told her she could go in there, and my roommate somehow doesn't understand why thats a massive issue.
I've stayed here because the rent is decent and I've finally been able to keep some money saved, so moving over this feels ridiculous. But knowing his mom apparently does little inspections when I'm gone is making me uncomfortable as hell.
Would you tell him the key needs to be taken back completely or am I making this bigger than it is?