u/Ace_Cloud1

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Hello, my name is Jasmine. I'm 26 from the UK. I'm looking to make some active friends or possibly dating. I have no distance requirements for either of these!

My main interests are the gym/bodybuilding, hiking, mushroom foraging, pokemon cards and collect gashapon/Teddy bears/hotwheel/rocks. I work as Pharmacy Technician, but would prefer to move into the environmental field.

If you are looking for the same thing or look interesting please message me! :)

I know this seems like a weird question but i have been feeling much worse lately about this and want to know if I was wrong? we started to see each other but not bf and gf yet about the start of January this year. All went well for the first couple of weeks.

Then he started get easily jealous of me meeting female and male friends (I am Bisexual) saying that everytime I met someone who wasnt him it was a dating or hinting that I was cheating on him, and started to check my phone and who I was messaging when I was asleep.

Then about a month ago, he snapped after I hung out with a friend from the gym, I dont normally do this but it seemed nice and I need more female friends and he was making me feel overwhelmed so i wanted some friends time. So I told him around 10pm that I was hanging out with her, and he lost it? I tried to deseculate the best I could. But nothing was working, but he kept cursing at me and not calming down. I said we could talk when he calmed down he didnt listen.

Come morning time he sent me 20 messages, complaining and saying I ruined his life. So I set boundaries in place basically saying that what he was doing was upsetting and scaring me and that I need a few days and an apology before we start speaking and I would message him when I felt better and upto it. Unfortunately he didnt accept that and over a 4 day period called over 200 times and 70 plus text messages. I tried to ignore this the best I could until he started to call my workplace multiple and asking if I was there.

So because of this I got the police involved because it was just too overwhelming and he has been given an order to not approch/contact me or my workplace for 12 months. He has ADHD and autism. So I feel like he didnt understand the boundaries. Am I wrong for reporting it?