r/asexualdating

Heya! I'm Aeiki (you'll eventually know my real name), 29 years old and I live in Québec, Canada! My main language is french, but I'd say I'm pretty fluent in english.

To describe myself, I'd say I have a caring and gentle soul. I'm open-minded on a lot of stuff. I'm like an emotional sponge, I feel things very deeply. I'm pretty introverted, but once I get comfortable with someone, I like to talk about everything and send random pictures of my daily life haha.

I consider myself as asexual - sex repulsed. Also don't have any kids and plan to stay like that forever.

Since I'm a bigger girl, body positivity is important to me! I am also neurodivergent, so I need someone to respect me for that (I'm an ISFP if you're interested in that). I also have to say that I'm very shy, and it takes time for me to come in a voice chat, especially because my social battery can be very low as well. But I'll try my best to engage with you c: I'm also slightly on the autism spectrum, just so you know in advance. I'm just socially awkward sometimes hahaha.

My hobbies:

- Video games (I like various games, from Stardew Valley to League of Legends)

- Baking

- Collecting plushies and figurines

- Traveling and road trips

- Photography

- Watching hockey (Go habs go!)

- Music; I like many genres and my fav band is Half Moon Run

Random facts on me:

- My favorite childhood video game is Spyro

- Favorite food are crêpes and pizza

- I have a cat named Béatrice and she is my baby

- I really like Pizza Hut

- I'm good at spending my money into useless things

- I hate wearing socks

What I am looking for:

I'd like to find someone with who I can chat about everything (even of all the little details of my little life) and be silly, listen to music, play games and watch movies.

I'm open to a long distance relationship or a QPR; while physical affection isn't the most important thing to me, I prefer having a deep emotional intimacy with a long term partner. I would prefer someone within my country, but anywhere is fine if we click! Age range would be between 24-35.

I don't drink or smoke. I am however 420 friendly (I take edibles). :3

My DMs are always open! Please ask for my discord, so we can chat over there c: I can also share more pictures of myself, if you want to do the same as well.

Hello! I’m Anna, 20 years old, from Peru.
I identify as nonbinary and I usually present femme, but sometimes I lean into a more androgynous/masculine look too. I enjoy both equally, they’re both genuinely part of who I am, and I’d love a partner who embraces my identity as a whole.

Romantically, I’m demiromantic/androromantic, feelings usually develop after a solid friendship first, so I do value clarity about intentions early on. Intellectually, I’m drawn to people who are deeply immersed in their own world, I love listening to people talk about what they’re passionate about, no matter the topic, it’s the enthusiasm that gets me. Aesthetically, I tend to be drawn to a more ethereal kind of masculinity, softer, androgynous features, someone who takes care of their appearance. Not really into hypermasculine energy.

Anyway, in terms of what I’m looking for: a long-term relationship, and I’m open to long distance. I’m planning to move abroad next year to transfer universities. Canada/USA is my first choice, but I’m open to Europe, Oceania, or Asia too if there’s a good opportunity.

Outside of dating stuff, I’m a musician, previously studying music composition, though I paused my studies because I wanted to transfer, but then some health problems came in the way (not for me but for my family), so I’m looking for the next admission so I could continue my studies, in a different specialty though (still music, but I’m deciding between music production/jazz studies). I’m also into photography, I really enjoy analog photo/videography, and I have a hyperfixation on analog cameras/camcorders.

I’m asexual and don’t experience sexual attraction, but I enjoy physical closeness (like cuddling skin to skin), and I do prefer that to be with someone masculine. A few kisses are fine too, but that’s about my limit. I’m looking for someone within the ace spectrum and I’m happy to talk through all of this together :D

Also, I value my personal space a lot. I’m not the type to be glued to someone 24/7, but there are definitely moments where I crave that closeness too.

Bonus: I’m always open to learning your language! I love languages and it’s something I’d genuinely enjoy doing with a partner.

I’m loud, a lot of energy, laugh easily, and get way too excited about things, probably not everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s genuinely who I am. Finishing up college right now so my brain’s usually somewhere between exhausted and fascinated.

I’m demisexual, so this is probably an easier conversation here than most places.

What I’m looking for: a real companion for life. Someone I can talk to for hours, who wants connection before anything physical, and who’s building toward something rather than just filling time. I want cuddling, flirting, the whole affectionate side of a relationship, just not centered on physical intimacy.

✨️ Taking another shot at this! ✨️

Hii internet people, my name's Arlowe (she/they). Last post didn't do so well so I'm trying again. I'm 19yrs old, turning 20 later in the year, and I'm nonbinary. I'm a feminine person, but I don't like boxing myself like that because anything can feel comfortable at any time.

I'm a soft and kind soul that often spreads love, but no pushover. I like conversing with people deeply because surface-level stuff doesn't have enough room for engagement. That's not to say I want every conversation to be insightful necessarily, but I like chatting beyond "how's the weather," and things like that.

My hobbies include writing, listening to music, watching TV, gaming, and baking. Although it's been a long while since I've baked. Games I play are Among Us and Minecraft. Yes, I play that at my big age. Music I love includes pop, a bit of hip-hop, a tinge of indie, some RnB and dance pop. Ariana Grande's my number 1.

Appearance wise I'm brown-skinned, short, have long hair, a bit of 'stache sometimes, dark eyes, and a slim body. I'll add a link to my pics at the end.

Oh, my voice is androgynous if that matters? Idk sometimes it's femme, sometimes it's masc. Stating this in case someone wants to call on discord or something.

What I'm looking for is a friends-to-lovers dynamic. Although romantic attractions comes faster for me, I still like getting to know someone as a friend before anything goes further. Whether a guy is cis or trans doesn't matter to me. I'm into soft masculines too. I also prefer being with bi/pan guys. Height doesn't matter much to me. I'm also asexual so sexual attraction isn't that important to me.

Seeing as I posted pics, I'd also like an early exchange of pictures. Physical attraction does matter to me.

Anyway, I'm keen on seeing I meet!

https://imgur.com/a/Pgxt6FA

Hi! It's my first time posting here, so I'm not really sure how this works 😅

I'm a straight asexual woman looking for a straight ace guy to be my lifelong partner—someone who brings out my femininity 🥺

A little about me: I have childhood trauma that I've made peace with over the years, but it has influenced how I relate to men. Because of that, I naturally appreciate someone who is gentle, patient, and knows how to carry a conversation.

I'm from the Philippines, your thin Asian girly. That's also why I'm most attracted to someone who is thin or fit. I can do long-distance, but only with the hope of eventually meeting and closing the distance in the future.

I have a stable job, thrive in structured environments, and value a peaceful, harmonious life. I have pet birbs and a few plants that wild birds love to visit. I'm not particularly outdoorsy because I've undergone a total thyroidectomy, but I still enjoy the occasional easy hike and regularly go on long walks.

I'm also childfree by choice. I adore kids, but I know I'm happiest being the auntie/ninang who enjoys spending time with them and then happily hands them back to their parents 😅

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to connect 😊 I'm hoping to find an organic connection on this platform because life already feels too transactional 🙏

Hi there—lawyer turned urban planner looking to become friends with passionate people. I’m a big movie buff, especially foreign and independent films, but I enjoy other genres like horror and sci-fi as well (tell me your Letterboxd Top 4). Also glad to talk about literature and theater, if that floats your boat.

Just to note, I’m demisexual myself, but I have no expectation of anything sexual happening. Really just looking for platonic friends at the moment.

Also, it would be great if I could meet some people who are local to the Southern California area, but I’m open to folks from anywhere. However, I would like to eventually talk on the phone or videochat, as I think it’s easier to assess the vibe through these methods rather than just texting.

Look forward to hearing from you :)

Just curious if there are anyone over 50 (or under 50 -doesn't matter) who likes to travel on occasion and go on road trips and EAT good food. Drama-free. No sex. Just a lotta fun and laughter. I have a profile on the ace space .love site. Thought I'd check out this space, too. :-)

I’m looking for a lifelong partner (any gender) . . . someone who lights up at the idea of real connection, shared adventures, and laughing so hard we cry (or snort ... no judgment). Would be cool to find someone who loves the open road, cruises (only with Virgin Voyages), fresh air, outdoor festivals, and doesn’t mind a little dirt under the nails or salt in their hair.

You might be a kindred spirit if you are:

-A fellow asexual soul (any gender welcome since no sex is involved) ---cuddles okay😊

-Emotionally grounded and spiritually curious (non-religious, although I do not judge)

-More into inner peace than outer drama

-Passionate about animals, great food, and not taking life too seriously

Think: calm and peaceful conversations next to the bonfire in front of my house, slow walks through my woods or quiet evening walks during a beach trip, spontaneous road trips, cozy evenings with snacks and movies, bumping elbows while making a mess in the kitchen, and someday . . .

...two rocking chairs, one porch, and a view of the lake as we look back on a life well-lived.

I'm a glass-half-full kind of person who genuinely loves life and the people in it.

Hey, my name is Tyler and like everyone here I'm a proud asexual. There's not an awful lot to be known about me, but I want full transparency for people so they know what they're getting into with me 🙏 (mainly my problems LOL) I'm OBSESSED with Cars and the Combustion Engine and if I were to meet someone who's also a car lover I'd want to marry you on the spot. I also quite like Animals, especially my adorable furbaby Milo, and I'm quite into my rock music (with the exception of Frank Ocean, he's AWESOME), but I try not to get into too much so I overwhelm myself and as I HATE overconsumption. I hope I can find someone special on here but my hopes are awful given my last 3 partners, and I have quite a few issues 🥲 I'm autistic so a lot of things can be a bit challenging, and my main issue which I always get scared mentioning is my bowels, but as I said I want to give a full picture of what you'll get with me. The only thing which will probably be a roadblock for a LOT of people is the fact that one day I REALLY want kids as I want to be the father I never had. How many or how it's done isn't an issue for me whatsoever, but if the right person came along I'm more than willing to change my mind 💪

Whether you think I'm interesting or if my issues are too much, I wish you all the best ❤️🫂