32 [F4F] Europe/Online - Looking for another woman for love!

My last relationship ended about one and a half years ago, after taking some time healing I'm putting myself out there again and seeing what's potentially out there. I've spent some time in other spaces too but they don't seem quite familiar with asexuality which is why I'm more comfortable putting myself out here. I'm looking to build a monogamous relationship with another woman as I'm homoromantic.

I would consider myself androgynous, I'm about 178cm in height, average weight with long brown hair and blue eyes. I have a very soothing androgynous voice too, I've been told that many times. I develop attraction based upon your personality: feeling close, comfortable and safe with you. I can very much be a flirt too when I feel comfortable. I showcase myself best in one-on-one conversations or small groups, the bigger the group the more quiet I get due to me being softspoken and not heard as easily then. I'm introverted, sometimes I need a little bit of time to recharge but once I recharge I can very much be a yapper. I like being aware of what's going on in the world, learning about things I'm not as educated about even if I won't use that knowledge ever. I also enjoy teaching people whatever I can, in the past it's been languages, culture or videogame related; only when people want to of course! In my spare time I enjoy working out (cycling and lifting weights) and gaming on pc. I also try to travel once a year too! At other times I enjoy watching content on youtube, sometimes watch some twitch streams and occassionally watch a movie or show (although mostly with friends). I would consider myself to be sex averse right now but I feel like my normal stance is sex neutral.

In terms of future plans, I have a preference in staying in Europe but would be open to moving elsewhere as long as it is supportive of same-sex marriage and equal rights for LGBT.

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u/yourowncookie — 1 day ago

32F / Project zomboid friends!

It has gotten a recent update and I'd love to get more into it! I have about 30 hours in it so far but that's been on the older version too. I'd love to find someone(or multiple people) to play regularly with and long term too, learn the ropes of the new update.

I'm in Europe but currently very flexible with time (due unemployment) if I get a little bit of a heads up :) I like to call when I play, I'm pretty chill and like to work together when we play too. I'd love to talk outside of gaming too, create a longterm friendship would be lovely but we can limit it to gaming only if you just want a gaming buddy! I also enjoy other zombie media(films and shows). No men please.

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u/yourowncookie — 21 days ago

32 [F4F] Europe/Anywhere - Romantic relationship wanted

I'm looking to develop a romantic connection with another woman. I'd love to develop a relationship where we can both feel safe, comfortable and where we are able to be vulnerable to each other too.(And be ourselves) Not looking to rush into anything either and I would prefer you to be above 25. I'll try my best to give you a bit of an idea of who I am with the information above :)

About me

  • 32
  • Monogamous
  • Located in Belgium (Born there too)
  • Willing to do long distance, willing to relocate in Europe only though. Preferably another country in Europe that has similar amount of LGBT rights as my own country.
  • Androgynous/soft masc
  • Tall (Around 180cm)
  • Enjoys working out (cardio, lifting weights)
  • Give off very calm vibe, I dont get stressed easily either
  • Very organized
  • Likes affection (cuddling, giving compliments)
  • Sex averse. Although I do have a mood sometimes, I'm not interested in including you in that physically.
  • Cybersecurity and coaching/teaching history
  • I develop feelings based on personality attraction, us vibing and me feeling close and vulnerable.
  • Dont want to rush into anything
  • Enjoys history and culture (travelling, learning about other cultures)
  • I can be flirty when I click with you
  • I'd rather have the difficult conversations than shy away from them
  • A bit more on the introverted side, I can yap your ears off but I do need some me-time too
  • I dont drink, smoke or do any drugs
  • I'm open to trying new things
  • I accumulate fun facts about the most random topics, I enjoy learning too.
  • I enjoy horror but can watch any genre, also like watching true crime
  • I game on my computer, frequency really depends on my enjoyment
  • I enjoy teaching people new things too
  • Quite available to text or call

This should give you a rough overview about myself and what I'm looking for. If it seems appealing to you and you're another woman, please reach out to me with a bit of information about yourself. Thank you!

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u/yourowncookie — 1 month ago
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32 [F4F] Europe/Anywhere - Looking for my romantic spark (women only)

After having not been dating for the last 1.5 years, I recently opened myself up for a potential romantic spark. The girl I was interested in has commitment issues so here I am, trying this to put myself out there and see what comes out of it :) Ideally my future wifey of course.

I'm only interested in women, heavily preferred from Europe but can be from anywhere.

I'm turning 33 this year and from a country in Western Europe. I'm open to moving to a different country and learning a new language for my future partner which is important to know.

I'm pretty androgynous but have long hair, I enjoy working out(cardio and lifting weights) and trying to become the best physical version of myself. I also do my best working on anything mentally if something arises. I'm not one to shy away from working on issues I have and talking about it. I'm very open and I find honesty and communication quite important pillars of any connection in my life. I'd rather have a difficult but honest conversation than not knowing something is wrong.

I'm more on the introverted side too, you're not gonna find me in bars or at parties. You'd find me at home watching movies, shows or pc game a little :) I dont drink, smoke or do drugs. I pretty much watch everything movie/show wise. I enjoy joking around, learning and sharing little fun facts, learning about history and exploring cultures through either visiting or online content. I can easily yap about a lot of different things. I also have quite a chill vibe and I've been told I feel very welcoming to talk to(both in text and call). I'm about 178cm too if that matters.

I gain attraction through your personality and I'm not here to rush into anything. I want to genuinely get to know you as friends and then see what happens! I have no issues with sticking as friends either.

It would be lovely when you reach out that you also write a little bit about yourself so I have something to go off.

Thank you and I might see you soon!

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u/yourowncookie — 1 month ago

32 [F4R] Europe/Anywhere - Strict platonic friendships

Thought it'd be nice to create some ace friends so here I am! I'm strictly looking for friendships, nothing more. I'm okay with being friends with any gender, I am ace and gay(homoromantic etc) though so you should at least be LGBT supportive. I would prefer you to be around my age (25-40).

I'll describe myself a little and then you can reach out to me if you think we could be a match!

I'm an almost 33 year old woman in Western Europe. I have an interest in different cultures, love learning about them through consuming content and personal experiences(travelling). I have been on a self improvement journey too through fitness and processing past experiences to be a stronger person mental. I would consider myself androgynous and also introverted. I do enjoy having deep connections, being there for people and having a laugh together. I've been told that I'm generally a positive person and I'm quite available to interact with too.

I'm also a gamer, at times I can game quite a fair bit. Typically it's the same games that I play a lot (on pc: Runescape 3 mainly, project zomboid a little bit). I enjoy calling with people too and wouldn't mind gaming together or watching something together eventually either :) I try my best at communicating when there's stuff on my mind too.

In my ideal world I meet an awesome best-friend type of person that I can be close with and eventually meet irl too!

Thank you for reading, talk to you soon perhaps!

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u/yourowncookie — 2 months ago

I'll start off with what I'm looking for and then I'll introduce myself after. I'm looking for a strictly platonic friendship, that means only a friendship, nothing more than that. I'd love to have someone to text with and also call with, longterm. Actually build a friendship and be there for each other, if possible eventually meeting up would be cool. I havent had any guyfriends in a while but I'm not opposed to it :)

Onto my introduction... I'm a 32 year old woman in Western Europe. Currently I'm quite available to chat and I stay up late semi-often so I'd be okay with you being from anywhere. At the moment I spend most of my time watching youtube or movies, on the side I do work outs but I'm working on getting more consistent with that. The content I watch on youtube is either travel related or true crime, movies wise I watch about anything tbh. I used to game on pc and have a decent amount of games but I havent lately, wouldnt be against doing it together if it comes to that :) wouldnt be against motivating each other to work out, keeping each other accountable.

I would say I am quite caring and welcoming to chat to. I am also quite accepting, LGBT supportive if that matters as I'm part of it myself too. I definitely wouldnt describe myself as a girly-girl, I'm more of a tomboy for sure. Not into make-up or being very feminine and as a person I'd say I'm more on the androgynous side. I try my best holding a conversation, I dont mind if others are a bit shy in the beginning, I used to be like that too. I have also dealt with depression before and had a rough last two years, so I've been working on rebuilding my life pretty much!

Not sure what else to mention about myself, please write a little about yourself when you reach out to me so I'll have something to go off. Thank you!

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u/yourowncookie — 4 months ago