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First one

Why does alchool abd zina require hadd despite being personal

Second :

I have noticed thar judaism was strict on rules , christanity was laid back , then islam came in middle was there reason or whar

Third :

Aby books or scholars you would recoomend reading to detox often extermist or simple black and white mindset .

Basically whatever you look online on anything islam realted you get the most blzc abd white extermidt stuff you can find like this football is haram cuz man thighs are exposed or something nobofh is literally id bothering looking at that yet somehow it treated same as looking as nudity or somethinh

Fourth

What islamic position on non sexual premartial boudnaries like for example couple kissing hugging and all

Fifth :

There is hadith about teaching kid to pray at 7 and hitting them at 10 and seperate them can i be given context or explanation cuz it soujd a bit tough ngl

And lastly :

How do you define women dress code and male dress code (no i am not one of the guys who say few hair exposed is basically extreme haram but somehow slightly above knee is fine then even that try to justify knee or thighs or watever arent awrah i am not sure what coubt as awrah but i dont have that double standard mindset)

due to recent event in tunisia where girl got SA but few males at one whenever i went through facebook and guys what i found , correct another religious how to try to present western sexual education as twisted and messed up saying" oh well germany got sexual education and they have high right of SA and sexual harrsement that doesn't mean sexual education is the solution " wchich i agree sexual education wouldn't suddenyl turn every freak out there to pious person but that doesn't mean how improtant it is then he went around of how islamic sexual education is best or something and i know i said sexual education but it not about studying about what sex is at least how they present it mostly this :
- male shouldn't look at women no matter how she dressed ( this is actually kind of good argument since it avoid shaming them and shifting blame on them and present it as 'girl wore so she is asking for it i don't agree in normal look if that what he meant but he meant like you shouldn't look sexually or in creppy way than this acutal good thing but it shouldn't be turned to stare at ground thingy ) but this isn't part of sexual program in any way
-oppsite gender shoudln't be alone ( this actual might be good religiously to avoid zina in seclusion) but again not realted to sex
- we should make mixed gender setting as low as possible that when i know what am i going to see next so i just decide to skip( because when people start mentionning mixed gender enviorment as somehow mmust be lesssen or perferably avoided that when i know what will come next ) wchich is already major flag but beside that non of these topics are realted to sexual education or what count as sexual education , usually circulium adress things like protection , pregrancy ,mentrstuation , body diagram, puberty , and such heck of these are good such to avoid gro*ming , manage addiction and boundaries
it funny these people who frame sexual education as corrupt byproduct of western world are often the ones who belive moses AS run around naked chasing off rock(cuz it stole his clothes) with whole of people of israel seeing his junk to verify it has no deficit then come around to preach that no matter context informative or not we must purge this world from " nudity and explicit material" even though literally most of them aren't even 1:1 thing and if they are you aren't watching porn or something you are learnning about your body
god using girl incident to push for such prograngda is awful behind imagning
literally none of sexual education will make you 'brainwashed into the hornniess" the only two thing we might differ with them is usually sex outside marriage( refer to zina ) or same sex relationship( however not everyone here view it as sin some might support same sex while other doesn't )
but to somehow use simply you are looking at awrah and normalizing premarital relationship doesn't cut it and often simplfictic

Hey , i was wondering how do you interpet dress code to be .

No this isnt an attempt to push for traditional idea or something.

What i dont get is verse 24:31 it talk about hidden adornement and hiding cleavage now i have been wondering wether this was exception or emphasize.

Basically no matter how societyy change private for both and breast for female must be covered or wether it emphasize them.

For example javed ghamidi had view that the small awrah from navel to knee could be compromised depending on context ehile maintain that private are to kept well private.

But the issue i found is the assumption that private are to beckept private .

I am not saying people should go around naked or bare chest but context does matter just like how bikini setting is normal in summer but often terrible in anywhere else

What i mean by this

Isnt basically oh well one scholar said out of hundred or this madhab allow it ,no what i mean is this is basically having indenpendant belief or thoughts that arent recongized by tradtional standard despite following them in most matter

For example idk being sunni while beliving in mutah ( yeah i know some scholars allow mutah but i couldn think of examples ) or beliving that growing the beard was contextual rather than obligated or perferable.

Just to clarify sorry i am not native english speaker but basically if you follow a sect but have indenpendant interpantion on something that no other scholars took position on it before as in like x is allowed by most scholard but you think it haram vice versa or in more conterversail areas different fubdemental on faith aspects like this for example beliving pre destination is by product of already written laws that allow aspect to happen rather than written on someone to sin again their will wchich conflict with freewill .

so i am not sure how many people can related with this .
but basically like this i feel stuck between quranism and sunnism and even within sunnism i feel this " unless you accept the view that all scholars agreed on you can't call yourself sunni " like for example if like most or all scholars agreed on X and i was like no i don't agree i might afraid this might not make me part of doctrine you know ,espcailly i feel when sometime i used that doctrine to face situation that i fall into like for example idk expitation or something

so this been crossing my mind for a while suppose the prophet PBUH i didn't like maybe allah revived him or something and said salafi are actually the correct view or at least he says tradtional mainstream islam is the correct view and everyone else are deemed as heretic or something .
or sometime i am afraid he might be judging like this " why women are wearing this " or says why you guys aren't cutting hand of thief or lashing adulters etc...
honestly it is scary thought to be honest.

the title idk why but whenever i search something online islamically first sources are you guessed salafi and it made me temporarily hate islam like is it just me or what

i didn't know where else to place this but my facebook feed kept showing salafi videoes mostly eid is haram then probarbly some other video debunking it ( i don't even think of eid as religious thing by eid i mean the prophet birthday ) oh and some other videos too one of is from some facebook guy saying " do not discuess or debate with religino when someone say cutting beard is haram or music is haram or art is haram , leaving salat is kufr , etc... if you research you will falll into pitless hole so instead say we hear and obey " i am about to ruin this guy entire exitence by introducing something calling thinker , difference of opnion and other bro acting as if salafi mouvment is the only mouvemnet in religion nope music and art are literally permitted in some school first of all second the seem difference of opnion include whatever something is kufr or not or thinkier take people like shabir ally or javed ahmed ghamidi or mufti abu layth if you introduce those he will probarbly say well these aren't the " correct " type of sunni islam the correct type do you hear yourself
llike bro i just can't with these online salafi guys not only they want to make life miserable ,they treat their way as the only way then when you think otherwise they say " well you don't have the tools to think or decide " then they start wondering with everyone is leaving islam or why islam is seeing as bad or something.

Before anyone ask no this isnt " ultra conservative opnion to tell what consist as kufr".

The issue i found with takfir it basically get thrown around casually

-oh you consider X halal despite majority saying it haram you are kaffir

-oh your sect differ from fundamental of my sect you're kaffir

-oh you have opnion against against well known opnion when it come to fundamental you're kaffir

Like bro at this point they might takfir someone for breathing , takfir isnt light thing that grt thrown around.

Sects basically use it to attack each other and anyone who slightly tolerate them

I mean i can understand the difference between quranist and sunni .

But sects are literally different that what make sect are .

Also isnt takfir idk a freaking conscious choice.

Like imagine yourself in this situation i was following what i thought was right then after death i am getting roasted medium rare forever cuz i wasnt convinced that specfic sect was right but ingorance appearntly isnt excuse enough to escape hellfire.

Like bro what

my philopshy teacher he is sunni but not traditional sunni per say , as in he has different views from mainstream anyway he was actually quite open about sexual topic and and he is one of people who i held in great regard because he helped me not regard sex as taboo anymore .
he didn't have problem when it come to masturbation and he was more supportive of sexual expression well to an extent that is ( like how he didn't find problem with making sexual arts and he even was okay with watching porn [i don't exactly support him fully on this due to exploitation and and all ]
basically long story short : he made look through islam from another lens that islam was tolerant toward sex and never view it as taboo
but i want to know what other things how much you share his view
tbh , i am in position to post my views on anything due to my severe anxiety and all , but i am not sure how does he even deal with the issue that rise up with that for example when it come to sexual arts what about the whole list about modesty and all it seem near impossible to get both .
to an extent i can see masturbation working since it all on your mind and it natural expression but when it come to sexual arts , that very very complicated mess .

Some scholars says oh you started wearing hijab now what about the past days you didnt wear them these are ongoing sin .

I know i said hijab but i mean dress code in general wether it hijab or modest or watever , you understand it as

hello there , since i was a kid or at least like preteen- teen i used to watch steven universe it was nice and all and was of my faviorute show .
however , as the series go on it go deeper into being metaphor for relationship espacilly same sex ones , currently i haven't started research more on islamic view on same sex and gender transition( this almost didn't happen often in the show) but i adopted main stream appraoch of same sex relationship being haram till i find more answer but i am bit anxious whenever i watch when it come to scene about same sex or something.
idk what to do should i skip or look away or just watch normally or what i mostly here for plot or art rather than anything else but still i am just afraid that i might support haram or something.

Intersitng view i saw in the past including from my teacher that awrah of relefction is somehow sdifferent or somethjng , wchich on surface yeah , it pretty dumb but he has told that the main thing about lowering tge gaze is for scial conduit not simply must not look although to be my fair my teahcer is a bit sexual progressive.

He isnt as progressive as sayig zina is halal but he does support sex work or at least view it closer to MMA or something (he was actually one of the people who intrdouce toward complexity morality issue of the sex work by itself ) i think highly of him and i wish i get to learn from him, iused to think sex is vile and corrupted by nature but he change my mind .

I met some people before who had similiar view not on sexual progressive and some had similiar toward awrah on drawing so can someone elaborate on that issue.

I keep hearing people saying , islam doesnt belive in live and let live but you have to correct everyone , that muslim isnt even allowed to be happy with other choices , like you have to constantly make them feel guilty and all.

Can you someome inform in this

idk how to put it but sometime hadith feel like the prophet sometime randomly prohibit things or at that has slight potnetial to be used for evil or something like this
i mean sure at most people try to argue it has hisotridcial context sometime they are treated as the same and can someone help because idk i get the vibes sometime if the prophet was alive he will be like extermly protective conservative or something like he might say things like internet "being footstep of satan " or like drinking cola is similiar to drinking dried heaven water or something
i know the issue is far more complex than simply the prophet everything haram or halal on whim but idk how should i stop feel that way that any normal act might be potential haram due to sometime hadith prohibitng acts for no reason
i mean no offense , i am truly am confused i wish to relax and focus on religion but i can't due to my trauma .

So while currently i view same sex as haram i am open to change my opnions i found later evidence but the thing is i am wondering since i view it as sin does this mean it haram to support them cuz then i will be helping in sin.

I get it sin part but why specfically it has preescribed punishement

Hey all it been long time since i posted something , been a bit busy.

Anyway i was wondering about some views here where interest isnt haram but rather usury and what didnt make sense to me is what about some hadiths that says for equal value and stuff like gold for gold and such can someone explain to me that persptive if it okay ?

Because why quran talked about multiples of additional money , the hadith is giving impression even one additional cent beyond the buroowed price is haram

So I am university student i am not CS major , I am ict major i am still studying and I am planning to work on my game by the time I finished up these four make up exams.

I used to be fan of the Sims series especially the Sims 3 but currently I don't expect much from EA anymore due to the sims current state.

Anyway I am planning on making my own simulation but instead of creating typical one where you make world create families and all .

I want to do this , the game itself is pretty basic like it has one job , two or three skills , ten life stages

Newborn , infant , toddler , child , tween , teen , old teen , young adult, adult , elder.

And few object, instead the game will rely on it editor interaface basically like this

The editor has model , animation window ,script window and finally effects window

And fans can easily create more content for game by copy pasting scripts of the already predefined events like carrers , object interactions , who can what etc...

Problem is idk how can i start like how do i even make editor inside a game

I have unity currently but i am still brainstorming the project so if there is better program to make game please let me know .

Before I start this might triggering for people but it mean a lot to me that you be understanding(I am fighting my anxiety that what I am saying is Kufr while saying this but it had to be done ).

So first of all , I have panic disorder I am currently under prescribed medicine i have no idea when i will quit them but my anxiety can be triggered by multiples things including hard examen , general anger , or controversial topic in general and guess what i am mostly exposed to ..

That right religion from minor Quran act like Quran recitation to in between like jinn possession or something and even fundamental ones like prayer or such

Heck at this i am not sure it even Islamic specifc literally i would have same effect if you recite Bible in front of me but less intense since I know it wrong well not fully wrong but it just that you know you get the idea

Anyway idk during those I am like shaking and start heavy breath and jump up and down ,

The more controversy the more intense it get it why I cant exactly pray currently 😔 I hate the impression that I am some guy who abandon religion that I get sometime but there situations where your options are limited.

And just when I cant do more harm to myself idk why do I even watch YouTube videos about sins you don't know you are doing yet it not as they say when you just do small research of these sins heck some of the things they said are invented and not from hadiths or anything and some of the ones that are some scholars different on them

But even the ones that they agree are haram like you know wearing silk , owning dogs ,etc...

These things scare me off and set me in panic mode because unlike traditional muslim I am stuck between quranism and sunnism the more I try to pick a side the more anxious I get and the more I research I feel those panic

People like mufti Abu layth or other do help instead of " beware brother our generation has normalized this very specific act that in God eyes is major sin " to " things were different back then and they often didnt had the same meaning as they do so " sure it not argument for everything go in Islam but it does help me relax a bit instead of being anxious all the time

Heck Idk why am I even fixated on them when I feel stuck in between two beliefs.

I just wish it all to end but idk how I literally cant move forward.

Please do not bully in belief 😔 🙏 I am psychologically not prepared for more stress