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my philopshy teacher he is sunni but not traditional sunni per say , as in he has different views from mainstream anyway he was actually quite open about sexual topic and and he is one of people who i held in great regard because he helped me not regard sex as taboo anymore .
he didn't have problem when it come to masturbation and he was more supportive of sexual expression well to an extent that is ( like how he didn't find problem with making sexual arts and he even was okay with watching porn [i don't exactly support him fully on this due to exploitation and and all ]
basically long story short : he made look through islam from another lens that islam was tolerant toward sex and never view it as taboo
but i want to know what other things how much you share his view
tbh , i am in position to post my views on anything due to my severe anxiety and all , but i am not sure how does he even deal with the issue that rise up with that for example when it come to sexual arts what about the whole list about modesty and all it seem near impossible to get both .
to an extent i can see masturbation working since it all on your mind and it natural expression but when it come to sexual arts , that very very complicated mess .

Some scholars says oh you started wearing hijab now what about the past days you didnt wear them these are ongoing sin .

I know i said hijab but i mean dress code in general wether it hijab or modest or watever , you understand it as

hello there , since i was a kid or at least like preteen- teen i used to watch steven universe it was nice and all and was of my faviorute show .
however , as the series go on it go deeper into being metaphor for relationship espacilly same sex ones , currently i haven't started research more on islamic view on same sex and gender transition( this almost didn't happen often in the show) but i adopted main stream appraoch of same sex relationship being haram till i find more answer but i am bit anxious whenever i watch when it come to scene about same sex or something.
idk what to do should i skip or look away or just watch normally or what i mostly here for plot or art rather than anything else but still i am just afraid that i might support haram or something.

Intersitng view i saw in the past including from my teacher that awrah of relefction is somehow sdifferent or somethjng , wchich on surface yeah , it pretty dumb but he has told that the main thing about lowering tge gaze is for scial conduit not simply must not look although to be my fair my teahcer is a bit sexual progressive.

He isnt as progressive as sayig zina is halal but he does support sex work or at least view it closer to MMA or something (he was actually one of the people who intrdouce toward complexity morality issue of the sex work by itself ) i think highly of him and i wish i get to learn from him, iused to think sex is vile and corrupted by nature but he change my mind .

I met some people before who had similiar view not on sexual progressive and some had similiar toward awrah on drawing so can someone elaborate on that issue.

I keep hearing people saying , islam doesnt belive in live and let live but you have to correct everyone , that muslim isnt even allowed to be happy with other choices , like you have to constantly make them feel guilty and all.

Can you someome inform in this

idk how to put it but sometime hadith feel like the prophet sometime randomly prohibit things or at that has slight potnetial to be used for evil or something like this
i mean sure at most people try to argue it has hisotridcial context sometime they are treated as the same and can someone help because idk i get the vibes sometime if the prophet was alive he will be like extermly protective conservative or something like he might say things like internet "being footstep of satan " or like drinking cola is similiar to drinking dried heaven water or something
i know the issue is far more complex than simply the prophet everything haram or halal on whim but idk how should i stop feel that way that any normal act might be potential haram due to sometime hadith prohibitng acts for no reason
i mean no offense , i am truly am confused i wish to relax and focus on religion but i can't due to my trauma .

So while currently i view same sex as haram i am open to change my opnions i found later evidence but the thing is i am wondering since i view it as sin does this mean it haram to support them cuz then i will be helping in sin.

I get it sin part but why specfically it has preescribed punishement

Hey all it been long time since i posted something , been a bit busy.

Anyway i was wondering about some views here where interest isnt haram but rather usury and what didnt make sense to me is what about some hadiths that says for equal value and stuff like gold for gold and such can someone explain to me that persptive if it okay ?

Because why quran talked about multiples of additional money , the hadith is giving impression even one additional cent beyond the buroowed price is haram

So I am university student i am not CS major , I am ict major i am still studying and I am planning to work on my game by the time I finished up these four make up exams.

I used to be fan of the Sims series especially the Sims 3 but currently I don't expect much from EA anymore due to the sims current state.

Anyway I am planning on making my own simulation but instead of creating typical one where you make world create families and all .

I want to do this , the game itself is pretty basic like it has one job , two or three skills , ten life stages

Newborn , infant , toddler , child , tween , teen , old teen , young adult, adult , elder.

And few object, instead the game will rely on it editor interaface basically like this

The editor has model , animation window ,script window and finally effects window

And fans can easily create more content for game by copy pasting scripts of the already predefined events like carrers , object interactions , who can what etc...

Problem is idk how can i start like how do i even make editor inside a game

I have unity currently but i am still brainstorming the project so if there is better program to make game please let me know .

Before I start this might triggering for people but it mean a lot to me that you be understanding(I am fighting my anxiety that what I am saying is Kufr while saying this but it had to be done ).

So first of all , I have panic disorder I am currently under prescribed medicine i have no idea when i will quit them but my anxiety can be triggered by multiples things including hard examen , general anger , or controversial topic in general and guess what i am mostly exposed to ..

That right religion from minor Quran act like Quran recitation to in between like jinn possession or something and even fundamental ones like prayer or such

Heck at this i am not sure it even Islamic specifc literally i would have same effect if you recite Bible in front of me but less intense since I know it wrong well not fully wrong but it just that you know you get the idea

Anyway idk during those I am like shaking and start heavy breath and jump up and down ,

The more controversy the more intense it get it why I cant exactly pray currently 😔 I hate the impression that I am some guy who abandon religion that I get sometime but there situations where your options are limited.

And just when I cant do more harm to myself idk why do I even watch YouTube videos about sins you don't know you are doing yet it not as they say when you just do small research of these sins heck some of the things they said are invented and not from hadiths or anything and some of the ones that are some scholars different on them

But even the ones that they agree are haram like you know wearing silk , owning dogs ,etc...

These things scare me off and set me in panic mode because unlike traditional muslim I am stuck between quranism and sunnism the more I try to pick a side the more anxious I get and the more I research I feel those panic

People like mufti Abu layth or other do help instead of " beware brother our generation has normalized this very specific act that in God eyes is major sin " to " things were different back then and they often didnt had the same meaning as they do so " sure it not argument for everything go in Islam but it does help me relax a bit instead of being anxious all the time

Heck Idk why am I even fixated on them when I feel stuck in between two beliefs.

I just wish it all to end but idk how I literally cant move forward.

Please do not bully in belief 😔 🙏 I am psychologically not prepared for more stress

I have seen some hadiths how it place great emphasis on prayer and all and some people are treating like abandoning it is the gravest of sin worser than murder and such .

Which I am confused can somebody explain to me how should we understood those hadiths cuz so far most resources I found range from he is kaffir to not kaffir but most be legally punished and to other making it sound on par with murder and such meaning even if you were mice person and all you won't get to heavenly easily cuz you don't pray

I myself cant pray due to my severe anxiety 😕 idk what should I tell people when they ask me about it so I just lie or something i cant say i dont pray cuz i dont need more guilt it might break me especially Friday that used to be death battle to me so I mostly hide till it over

How do you guys feel toward erotic arts usually they are drawn and unrealstic and i dont mean like porn site or something but like this, ecchi. , hentai , adult love stories , or just sexual elements within stories in general they don't have to be erotic but contain nudity as part of art.

On one hand I can see them being indecent and not corresponding with dress code , but on the other it's not real different from real life interaction and more often has built in tag for sensitive material.

Heck sometime it not drawn but written or sung or referenced.

i honestly idk what to feel about hijab anymore i have seen too many views idk anymore what exactly that consist as dress code and what doesn't some saying depending on cultuure other saying everything except arms and face other saying hair is alllowed and idk anymore .
what does 24:31 is even about at this point what even dress code is about .
too many views and idk what to decide what consist as decent and what doesn't.

like i just don't get it , it sounded misgonytic as if male is responsible for what female do and doesn't do even by reformist standard where it only apply to her doing sex or something .
the thing is why is he responisble for them and that he must control her otherwise he is dayooth can someone explain to me i don't get the hadith about three wouldn't enter heaven and one of them is dayooth like i get most people aren't exactly happen when their partner cheat and all but why is this the need to control female even when they command illicit behaviour

The title idk what else to add , lol

Tbh , at first i thought he is your average salafi guy but bro has interesting inculding the famous " masturbation is haram but doesnt break the fast " but seriosuly he helped me clear my anxiety better espcailly when most of fatwa online are mass spam salafis who are two steps away from declaring everything haram.

in case this one got taken down , hopefully we wouldn't lose everything
so i just made this thread for idea on where to create because i haven't thought where exactly to create or what to even make it abouut

What i mean is this like for example if women isnt wearing hijab am i allowed to look at her hair intentionally if it not sexually or like her neck or looking at people thighs or others

Since many sheikh i hear saying islamically that area should be covered so even if he didnt covered i am not islamically allowed to look even non sexually

What i didnt understood the awrah part . Like some says ir just private other says it navel to knee

And why do women have more extensive awrah espaicl’y the part where to whom they can show or not