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In my past two readings, my reader saw a big tulip and a pretty white lily

What could these symbolise?

I’ve seen this quote a lot recently, and I’ve been thinking about it from my own life and how it worked out.

But what does this actually mean?

When I was at uni I met a guy who I had a crush on. He rejected me initially, claiming he just wanted to have fun.

For a week or two I was upset, and tried to impress him, got upset when he got with other girls etc.

But then I dropped it, met other guys, enjoyed my university life and stopped thinking about him as much.

I still saw him often, but almost decided I didn’t care anymore

And boom, a couple months later, he became obsessed with me.

At the time I didn’t know about it Neville, but now that I do it seems that this quote (in the title) rings true for this scenario

And thinking about it, I took away meaning from what was going on (chose not to care) and then i got what i wanted.

Now im not saying this is the way, Im just reflecting on my own past.

So I’d like to ask if this has been anyone else’s experience and for anyone to please try and give an explanation for this because I can’t seem to.

Reflections would be so interesting!

I think something people don’t talk about much is the major contradiction between doing techniques and developing the knowing that it’s done

For pretty much all of my manifestations, they’ve arrived only when I’ve either given up or felt such a deep knowing and certainty that I didn’t need to think about it all the time

I feel perhaps getting stuck in a loop of techniques can be a result of desperation

So there must be some sort of choice that has to happen where you decide you’ve got the thing/it’s inevitable and carry on with life

My problem is getting to that stage consciously!

So how did you make that switch?

How did you stick to that decision when you wanted the thing so badly?

I think something people don’t talk about much is the major contradiction between doing techniques and developing the knowing that it’s done

For pretty much all of my manifestations, they’ve arrived only when I’ve either given up or felt such a deep knowing and certainty that I didn’t need to think about it all the time

I feel perhaps getting stuck in a loop of techniques can be a result of desperation

So there must be some sort of choice that has to happen where you decide you’ve got the thing/it’s inevitable and carry on with life

My problem is getting to that stage consciously!

So how did you make that switch?

How did you stick to that decision when you wanted the thing so badly?