Just trying to figure it all out?
Ok please don't attack me, insult, belittle I just need some advice.... I f(39) have been with my man(39) for 22 years we've had ups and downs like anyone really. Nothing about swinging has ever been talked about until recently. I have caught him talking to ppl online about meeting up and it happens often. He tells me he wants to swing and that what he does on his phone isn't any of my business and that it isn't real it's his fantasy land. Ok well I'm just not ok with that cuz it hurts me. But then he says he wants to start swinging that it'll help our relationship. But idk if he is serious or if he is just looking for permission to be able to fuck someone other then me. I was told that if there is jealousy and problems in the relationship to start that bring in others is not how to fix it?? I just wanna be happy with him and the swinging thing I could do but I think we need to heal from this first. Any advice??? Thanks