u/AdNorth1883

Hi everyone,

I’m in my late 20s and currently living in Switzerland. I have a stable full-time job, no debt, and I’m financially responsible. I’m also working on myself intellectually, spiritually, and physically.

Lately I’ve been thinking about whether Switzerland is the right place for me long term. I find it difficult to build a social circle here, and dating has also been challenging, especially because I’m looking for a serious relationship with someone who values family, loyalty, and a more traditional lifestyle.

I’m not trying to move only for dating, but I do wonder if another country or city might be a better fit socially and culturally. I would like to live somewhere where people are more open, community-oriented, and easier to connect with.

I’m interested in hearing from people who moved abroad for a better social life, cultural fit, or long-term relationship prospects. Which countries or cities would you recommend for someone in my situation?

Some details about me:

I live in Switzerland, work full-time, and can support myself financially. English is not my first language, but I can communicate in English. I would prefer a safe country with good quality of life, a strong sense of community, and realistic options for work or residency.

Has anyone here moved because they felt socially or culturally out of place? How did it work out, and what should I consider before making such a decision?

English is not my first language, so I used AI to help write and translate this post more clearly.

Hi everyone,

I’m in my late 20s and I’m struggling a bit with dating and finding the right woman.

I work full-time during the week, and every Saturday I go to study. Outside of that, I spend a lot of time working on myself intellectually, spiritually, and physically. I train regularly, take care of my body, and try to stay positive and disciplined.

The thing is, I don’t really go out much besides church. I live in Switzerland, and in my experience people here are not always easy to talk to or connect with, especially if you don’t already have a social circle.

On paper, I think I’m doing okay. I have a good job, no debt, I’m financially stable, I’m fit, and I try to be a positive person. But I still find it difficult to meet a woman who shares similar values and wants something serious.

I don’t want casual dating. I would like to meet someone kind, loyal, family-oriented, and with similar values, but I’m not sure where to actually meet someone like that when my life is mostly work, study, church, and self-improvement.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How can I put myself out there more without changing who I am or forcing myself into environments that don’t fit my values?

English is not my first language, so I used AI to help me write and translate this post more clearly.

Looking for sub where i can post with new account about my life problem with living abroad alone and thinking about moving back home because no dating and social life abroad