Is there any coming back from this or should we get a divorce?
My husband and I have been married for under a year. And we’ve been together for about three. I shouldn’t have ignored these warning signs, but I think it’s hit a breaking point. He seems to have anger issues and this past weekend he got drunk and screamed at me because I was upset that he did not text me after golfing like I’d asked, as I had wanted to meet up for lunch afterwards.
And he screamed at me that I suck and I am no fun to be around and he hates his life. and I make him want to KHS. I know he was drunk, but I don’t think that’s any excuse to speak to me that way and I can’t ignore the things he said.
I am at a point where I’d rather be alone than be treated like this or spoken to like this. But divorce is very scary. I don’t wanna have to sell our newly purchased home. We’ve worked so hard on it. And spent so much money. I could maybe trying to afford the mortgage by myself, but it would be tight. Maybe worth it because I love our home. The other scary thought is having to go back into the dating world. I’m also sad because I’m 36 and likely won’t be able to get married and have kids in the amount of time required. Such a hard situation. But I just know that I don’t want him to live a life where he is miserable and I certainly don’t either.
Is there any repairing this? Or will it only get worse? Should we even try therapy?
Tl;dr
My husband screamed at me over the weekend that he hates his life so much and that I make him want to KHS and I suck. Is there any coming back from that or should we get a divorce?