u/AdeptPut8561

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25 [M4F] Germany/Europe/India

I'm a 25M living in Germany pursuing my Masters and working part-time as a research assistant. I have no hopes of finding a childfree partner on dating apps when everyone out here is wanting to have children or aren't sure of having children yet. This is definitely not my first time posting here, and won't be the last.

About Me

  • I'm silly and freespirited, an awkward extrovert, love to crack bad jokes (not limited to brainrot), and love to yap.
  • Chalant, around the right people.
  • I'm an atheist. I’m a leftist, and I’m still learning everything there is about political movements and ideologies.
  • I can speak 5 languages!
  • I’m 5’8, I have a moderately active lifestyle, trying to get chiseled after going into weight loss. I prioritize eating healthy while trying to enjoy my favorite dishes. I drink in social settings, and I don't smoke or do drugs.

And since I’ve been asked this a couple of times before, I’ve never been in a relationship. I’m a little late to the party called life, it took a while to show up for myself, and I’m yet to find that special someone.

Interests

  • I'm an engineer by profession but have a deep love for cinema. I'm always impressed by the technical aspects of it, but I still love and appreciate great storytelling. I like to take apart movies and analyze them.
  • I take interest in photography and videography. I'm an amateur at best, but I'm not afraid to experiment whenever I can. I shoot on my iPhone and edit it from scratch. I like the painstaking process that comes with taking beautiful pictures, definitely one of my top "slow dopamine release" activities.
  • I’ve taken an interest in Japanese martial arts (Budo) in recent times. It’s been an enriching experience, despite the sore body.
  • Travelling (as long as I'm not broke)
  • Getting back into the habit of reading after a long period of studying only academic texts. I like reading fiction and non-fiction.
  • Music enjoyer; metal, rock, jazz, pop, experimental stuff that itches a part of my brain, to name a few. I should just show my playlists atp.
  • I’m a casual gamer. I'm currently hooked onto the Resident Evil franchise. I play multiplayer and co-op games with friends whenever I get the time from my busy schedule.
  • I’m a foodie. I like trying out new cuisines and recipes. I don’t particularly enjoy the process of cooking, but I choose recipes that I can meal-prep, and once I get into the flow, I forget about everything and take it till the end.

Why am I childfree?

I got to know I’m CF around the age of 21-22. With time I’ve introspected whether I would change my stance if the world became a better place. But there has been one constant throughout and is the only standing reason for me sticking to being CF. I don’t feel the necessity or instinct or “urge” to have kids. It is never in the picture when I think of my future. It simply doesn’t make sense to me why it is an obligation. It doesn’t make sense to have kids to take care of you when you’re old, because you forgot to take care of yourself when you were young and now you can't wipe your ass by yourself at 80.

I want the freedom to take big life decisions that simply wouldn't be possible with a child to take care of. I don’t believe in the idea of maintaining a legacy, when people will either remember me for the impact I’ve made in their lives, or be reduced to an afterthought after I pass away.

What am I looking for in a potential partner?

  • Age range: 22-29
  • Living in German, or Europe, or currently in India and planning to move to Germany or the EU
  • Looking for a long-term relationship
  • Is Atheist/Agnostic
  • Leftist, Left-leaning
  • Not a fencesitter

I'm always happy to meet someone with different interests and quirks. I would love to meet someone who introduces me to new things and makes me come out of my comfort zone. I want to meet someone with whom I don't have to play 4D chess to woo them. I want to be able to express my thoughts and feelings with my partner freely, knowing I'll be accepted as I am. I want that warm, snug feeling that comes with love. Even in dull moments, I want to be with someone who feels like home. 🧿

If you made it this far, thanks for reading. If I caught your eye with my post and would like to get to know me, dm me with an intro about yourself and the emoji I used in this post.

u/AdeptPut8561 — 1 day ago

25M Suche sympathische Leute kennenzulernen

Hey, ich bin seit 2024 Masterstudent hier und möchte interessante Leute kennenlernen. Derzeit lerne ich Deutsch und habe das Niveau B2 erreicht. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass es besser wäre, wenn ich mit jemandem auf Deutsch sprechen würde, statt in meiner „Expat Bubble“ zu bleiben. Warnung: Ich mache viele Fehler beim Sprechen und wechsle manchmal zwischen Deutsch und Englisch. Ich bin ein Yapper und quatsche gerne viel, bis ich nicht mehr kann (oder bis ich auf Deutsch nicht mehr sprechen kann lol).

Ich bin links orientiert und Atheist. Ich bin ein großer Filmfan und fotografiere gerne. Ich lese Bücher, wenn ich Zeit finde, und höre Musik wie Metal, Jazz oder Hip-Hop. Ich spiele auch ein paar Computerspiele. Derzeit spiele ich Resident Evil 3.

Ich möchte mit Leuten im Alter von 23 bis 28 Jahren chatten.

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u/AdeptPut8561 — 11 days ago

25 [M4F] Germany - Looking for my +1

I'm a 25M South Asian living in Germany for almost 2 years now. I came here as a Masters student, and currently I work as a research assistant part-time alongside uni. I'm 172 cm, on the skinny side, and currently working on getting chiseled after losing a lot of weight since I landed in Germany.

I'm a cinephile at heart, I love going to the movies and talking about everything films and tv. I indulge in photography, and although I'm still an amateur, I like the process of shooting and editing from scratch as opposed to using a filter. Eventually I intend to learn filmmaking as soon as life get a little less busier or I get a full-time job. I enjoy a good book and some music from time to time, and like any good piece of art, let myself be moved by it. Life just ain't worth living without indulging in art. I keep myself active through the gym and learning martial arts. Travelling became a thing for me quite recently, and so far I've travelled to Italy and Czech Republic.

I'm a leftist, and an atheist. I also hold a childfree stance. I realized I was childfree around 3 years ago. I didn't really see myself having children far into the future, and I still don't. I want to live life on my own terms and take big risks. I intend to keep this decision forever.

I like being silly and free-spirited, and while I'm not without flaws, I always show my true self with everyone I meet. I work on my shortcomings, and I don't like being performative or hanging around with performative people. I feel it is a disservice to myself and the person I'm trying to connect with, if not draining of your energy and time. I like to talk with people for hours on end about anything under the sun till I have no energy left in me (although I have my days where I can go completely quiet, which does bother people sometimes lol). I'm always happy to lend someone an ear, or be a shoulder to lean on, during tough times.

I want to meet someone who I vibe with as best friends first, before committing to a relationship. Rome wasn't built in a day, and I honestly don't believe in finding your true love in 2 seconds. Let's get to know each other really well and see where it goes. Please be open-minded, politically and culturally. And you MUST BE childfree, no exceptions. I hope you're at least 23 years and older, and residing in Germany. I'm not yet comfortable with sharing a photo on a post, but I am open to exchanging photos in DMs.

If my post connected with you, send me a DM with an intro. Cheers x

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u/AdeptPut8561 — 12 days ago

25 [M4F] Germany - Looking for my +1

I've posted a few times on here before and I still haven't figured out how to start. I'll keep it short and sweet.

I'm a 25M, from Tamil Nadu, living in Germany for almost 2 years now. I came here as a Masters student, and currently I work as a research assistant part-time alongside uni. I'm 172 cm (raaahhh fuck the imperial system), on the skinny side, and currently working on getting chiseled after losing a lot of weight since I landed in Germany.

I'm a cinephile at heart, I love going to the movies and talking about everything films and tv. I indulge in photography, and although I'm still an amateur, I like the process of shooting and editing from scratch as opposed to using a filter. Eventually I intend to learn filmmaking as soon as life get a little less busier or I get a full-time job. I enjoy a good book and some music from time to time, and like any good piece of art, let myself be moved by it. Life just ain't worth living without indulging in art. I keep myself active through the gym and learning martial arts. Travelling became a thing for me quite recently, and so far I've travelled to Italy and Czech Republic.

I'm a leftist, and an atheist. I realized I was childfree around 3 years ago. I didn't really see myself having children far into the future, and I still don't. I want to live life on my own terms and take big risks. I intend to keep this decision forever.

I like being silly and free-spirited, and while I'm not without flaws, I always show my true self with everyone I meet. I work on my shortcomings, and I don't like being performative or hanging around with performative people. I feel it is a disservice to myself and the person I'm trying to connect with, if not draining of your energy and time. I like to talk with people for hours on end about anything under the sun till I have no energy left in me (although I have my days where I can go completely quiet, which does bother people sometimes lol). I'm always happy to lend someone an ear, or be a shoulder to lean on, during tough times.

I want to meet someone who I vibe with as best friends first, before committing to a relationship. Rome wasn't built in a day, and I honestly don't believe in finding your true love in 2 seconds. Let's get to know each other really well and see where it goes. Please be open-minded, politically and culturally. I hope you're at least 23 years and older, and residing in Germany. I'm not yet comfortable with sharing a photo on a post, but I am open to exchanging photos in DMs.

If my post connected with you, send me a DM with an intro. Cheers x

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u/AdeptPut8561 — 13 days ago
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25 [M4F] Germany - Looking for my +1

I've posted a few times on here before and I still haven't figured out how to start. I'll keep it short and sweet.

I'm a 25M South-East Asian living in Germany for almost 2 years now. I came here as a Masters student, and currently I work as a research assistant part-time alongside uni. I'm 172 cm (raaahhh fuck the imperial system), on the skinny side, and currently working on getting chiseled after losing a lot of weight since I landed in Germany.

I'm a cinephile at heart, I love going to the movies and talking about everything films and tv. I indulge in photography, and although I'm still an amateur, I like the process of shooting and editing from scratch as opposed to using a filter. Eventually I intend to learn filmmaking as soon as life get a little less busier or I get a full-time job. I enjoy a good book and some music from time to time, and like any good piece of art, let myself be moved by it. Life just ain't worth living without indulging in art. I keep myself active through the gym and learning martial arts. Travelling became a thing for me quite recently, and so far I've travelled to Italy and Czech Republic.

I'm a leftist, and an atheist. I realized I was childfree around 3 years ago. I didn't really see myself having children far into the future, and I still don't. I want to live life on my own terms and take big risks. I intend to keep this decision forever.

I like being silly and free-spirited, and while I'm not without flaws, I always show my true self with everyone I meet. I work on my shortcomings, and I don't like being performative or hanging around with performative people. I feel it is a disservice to myself and the person I'm trying to connect with, if not draining of your energy and time. I like to talk with people for hours on end about anything under the sun till I have no energy left in me (although I have my days where I can go completely quiet, which does bother people sometimes lol). I'm always happy to lend someone an ear, or be a shoulder to lean on, during tough times.

I want to meet someone who I vibe with as best friends first, before committing to a relationship. Rome wasn't built in a day, and I honestly don't believe in finding your true love in 2 seconds. Let's get to know each other really well and see where it goes. Please be open-minded, politically and culturally. I hope you're at least 23 years and older, and residing in Germany. I'm not yet comfortable with sharing a photo on a post, but I am open to exchanging photos in DMs.

If my post connected with you, send me a DM with an intro. Cheers x

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u/AdeptPut8561 — 13 days ago