I’ve had bumps ever since I started shaving my vagina, but recently there have been bigger bumps, and when hair grows back it hurts when they’re touched or if my underwear grazes them. I popped some, most of the time they come back but some go away. This particular pimple just grows and I’m worried now.
I 16f was driving with my dad when at a stop sign I took a wrong turn. I turned left instead of right and he yelled at me. I reversed the car then turned right and he started berating me and saying things like, “you should know where we’re going” (since it’s in our neighborhood, BUT there are two ways to make it to where we were headed from both left or right. Prior to the turn I asked which way and he said left.)
He continued to diminish me and yell at me about how I never listen and only want to do what I want to (I keep on making the same mistake of leaning a little to the left, but I know this and try to actively correct it. I’ve been doing better so far). He mentioned all the mistakes I make while driving (I’ve been driving for ~4/5 months and have my permit im getting my license next month). And then he called me a “bastard”.
That really hurt and I tried explaining this to him but he just said “it’s because of what you’re acting like”.
I said “dad, have I ever said anything remotely mean to you or disrespectful like that?” “Respect goes both way and I didn’t appreciate you calling me a bastard”
He never apologized for that. So right now I refuse to speak to him. AITA?
I, 16F, got into a huge argument with my parents over Brawl Stars. Sort of.
I was minding my own business by the dining table when my dad called me over and I told my dad to give me a minute. But he called me over again, so I walked over while playing.
He pointed to the ground and there were my shoes, keys, wallet, and water bottle lying on the floor; and he said, “Why do you think this is okay?”
And I said, “I need to pee really badly when I got home, so I put my stuff on the ground and ran to the bathroom because I better pee myself, but I’m sorry, I’ll pick them up after this game’s done.”
He got really angry at that and told me to put my phone away. (I was in the middle of a ranked match AND it was my rank up match from diamond to mythic). Then he accidentally grabbed my finger and bent it. Keep in mind, I just got my nails done today. So when he was trying to grab my phone from my hand, he bent my nail back. And anyone who’s ever had acrylic nails knows how badly that hurts. So I start crying, obviously, because I’m in pain. And he’s just like, “you’re faking it, you’re faking it.” And I was so upset.
My mom said to my dad that isn’t right, because she knows how badly it hurts if a nail gets bent back, because I genuinely thought it was about a break, and was sobbing my eyes out. And even my brother said that was too far, and my dad was just being rude, and I don’t want to go into too much detail because I’d be writing forever. But, the gist was; I left my stuff on the floor and made excuses, I didn’t clean my room, I was playing games and being rude. My mom joined the argument to yell at me about my room and it shifted from my stuff on the ground to that. I was in the wrong for my clothes but I didn’t like the way I was treated. She also said that every time I want to ho anywhere outside the house I need to send a picture of my room to her. My dad was just really rude that entire conversation. He was saying stuff like how I was faking being hurt. He called my room a “cow dung” after the argument, and he thought I was out of earshot, and he told my older brother to check my room for himself and compare it to his own, and it made me really angry. And he apologized at the end for my nail, but I didn’t even want to look at him. I have to go drive with him today for my hours for my professional license, but I don’t even know if I want to anymore. I just feel like I was being treated very rudely last night , and my feelings weren’t really taken into consideration. So,
AITAH?
p.s. the only “messy”thing about my room was that I had 3 loads of laundry on my bed but everything else is clean.
edit: I only had laundry to do, my desks, nightstand etc are all clean I just procrastinated folding my clothes. And I genuinely forgot about the stuff on the ground if i remembered I would’ve picked it up. And I did pick it up after my match which had ~20 seconds left atp. I understand my parents were mad at my for leaving stuff, but is waiting for 20 seconds that bad? I don’t mean to be rude but I really want to know.
edit #2: my stuff my dad told me to pick up was in the corner next to the front door of my house so it wasn’t in anyone’s way to clarify a bunch of comments made.