u/Admirable_Ad1613

As a 23 year old student who graduated from grad school I’ve been approached by a friend of a friend who suggested amway to make extra money and build a successful business. Before they move me to the next steps they want me to answer these questions before we have a meeting today. The last five questions are definitely raising some concerns for me. Especially paired with the fact that they’re very interested when im going to test for my BCBA certification and going to be done studying. Do these people expect me to not spend time and money into school……?

1.Can you explain the difference between Amway and URA? What are the key distinctions between the two?

2. In your own words, what do you think the difference is between mentorship and regular advice?

3. Please write down your short-term (1-3 years) and long-term (5-10-20 years) goals that you see this opportunity helping you create. Make sure to be very detailed.

Short Term (1-3 years)

Long Term (5+ years)

4. Based on the daily/weekly habits we discussed (audios, reading, communication, association, and coachability),please explain your understanding of each. Why do you think they’re important for honoring a partnership? How do they relate to your development and the achievement of your goals?

5A. Can you explain the difference between investing and spending? Why is being your own best customer crucial for business ownership with this asset?

5B. From a business owner’s perspective, why is it crucial to have your DITTO process on the first day of the month?

5C. How will sticking to a budget that is created with the help of a mentor/coach contribute to having a ditto process on the first day of the month? 

6. Explain your understanding of the significance of Thursday meetings and why they are vital to your success.

7A. What is your understanding of the importance of attending the FOUR Major Conferences annually in person, and why are they critical to your personal and entrepreneurial growth?

7B. Could you please provide the date for the next major conference?

8. If someone you love or respect, such as a parent or best friend, expresses doubts about the value of your time, the effectiveness of your approach, or even accuses you of being a pyramid scheme, how would you respond?

9. When life presents challenging situations, do you tend to isolate yourself or seek out supportive individuals who can offer guidance and assistance during difficult times?

10. In your opinion, what distinguishes an emotional decision from a logical decision?

11. If we were to extend an offer, do we have the authority to genuinely coach you in building an asset, and if we identify areas that require attention, do you want to know that we are free to address them with you?

12. Do you foresee any obstacles that could hinder your ability to meet the expectations set for your goals?

Update: I definitely told them to fuck off 🤣. Tbh I kept going for the plot but it’s clear as day this company is a cult because psychologically what type of fuck ass business asks these types of questions?!?! Also of course I have a masters degree and I certainly wasn’t going to spend money or time on that bullshit anyways 💀. I’m just shocked these people are so rude and so forward about this stuff. I even told my friend who introduced me to this about this subreddit and how they need to get out now!!! Luckily I didn’t spend any money(wasn’t going to anyways highkey) but she already got the starter pack so she’s unfortunately already in. My question is how do people get into this without researching anything about this company 💀

As a 23 year old student who graduated from grad school I’ve been approached by a friend of a friend who suggested amway to make extra money and build a successful business. Before they move me to the next steps they want me to answer these questions before we have a meeting today. The last five questions are definitely raising some concerns for me. Especially paired with the fact that they’re very interested when im going to test for my BCBA certification and going to be done studying. Do these people expect me to not spend time and money into school……?

1.Can you explain the difference between Amway and URA? What are the key distinctions between the two?

2. In your own words, what do you think the difference is between mentorship and regular advice?

3. Please write down your short-term (1-3 years) and long-term (5-10-20 years) goals that you see this opportunity helping you create. Make sure to be very detailed.

Short Term (1-3 years)

Long Term (5+ years)

4. Based on the daily/weekly habits we discussed (audios, reading, communication, association, and coachability),please explain your understanding of each. Why do you think they’re important for honoring a partnership? How do they relate to your development and the achievement of your goals?

5A. Can you explain the difference between investing and spending? Why is being your own best customer crucial for business ownership with this asset?

5B. From a business owner’s perspective, why is it crucial to have your DITTO process on the first day of the month?

5C. How will sticking to a budget that is created with the help of a mentor/coach contribute to having a ditto process on the first day of the month? 

6. Explain your understanding of the significance of Thursday meetings and why they are vital to your success.

7A. What is your understanding of the importance of attending the FOUR Major Conferences annually in person, and why are they critical to your personal and entrepreneurial growth?

7B. Could you please provide the date for the next major conference?

8. If someone you love or respect, such as a parent or best friend, expresses doubts about the value of your time, the effectiveness of your approach, or even accuses you of being a pyramid scheme, how would you respond?

9. When life presents challenging situations, do you tend to isolate yourself or seek out supportive individuals who can offer guidance and assistance during difficult times?

10. In your opinion, what distinguishes an emotional decision from a logical decision?

11. If we were to extend an offer, do we have the authority to genuinely coach you in building an asset, and if we identify areas that require attention, do you want to know that we are free to address them with you?

12. Do you foresee any obstacles that could hinder your ability to meet the expectations set for your goals?

Hello. I am a customer and almost was in an accident this morning due to the driver. The traffic light was off and not working so he blindly followed the car in front of him and we almost got t boned by a garbage truck but luckily he abruptly stopped before we got into an accident. He did apologize and said he didn’t see the light was down and was following the car in front. I then told him that you should not do that. I understand it was a honest mistake but I feel like he should know that at an intersection with no light it is a four way stop. He did not have any knowledge of that at all. He was a foreign man so I felt bad but at the same time that could have been a very fatal accident so I reported him. I don’t want him to be fired I just want him to learn and understand his mistake. Will he be fired? I do feel bad but again I don’t want him to make this mistake and ruin someone else’s life.

So I’ve been in this lesbian situationship for about 6 months now. We both agreed we wanted a slow burn friendship to lovers relationship. We go on dates, hold hands in public, kiss, call each other pet names. The thing is I have to admit I have been insufferably horny. Like she’ll tease me by groping my boobs or rubbing my nipples and sometimes we makeout but we never go beyond that. Like through the phone we tell each other how wet we make one another and flirt sexually but we don’t have sex. We only have had sex one time and that is when we both got super drunk early in our “relationship” but ever since we have never gone anywhere beyond that. She hasn’t asked me to be her girlfriend I’m assuming because we both agreed on taking it slow but OMG it’s making my pussy ache 😩😭 like I don’t think I’ve been this pent up before. I’m so scared to ask for relief but at the same time I feel like we’re both scared of intimacy. Maybe it’s because I’m ovulating rn but I need her so badly and I wish I could let her know that.

** thank you all for the replies, I just have to admit I’m so scared taking it further 😭. What if she doesn’t want me like I want her? Also let me preface that this is my first lesbian friendship/ situationship but she’s dated girls in the past. I’m just so shy 👉🏾👈🏾 and she usually leads so that’s why I only go as far as she goes.