AITAH for leaving my friend at a concert after she disappeared with a guy?
My friend (19F) and I (18F) went to a concert together last weekend. It was about an hour from where we live, and we agreed beforehand that we were sticking together and leaving together.
Halfway through the concert she started talking to this guy near us. I didn’t really care and was doing my own thing, but eventually I realized they were both gone.
I texted her asking where she was. Nothing.
Called her twice. Nothing.
After like 20 minutes she finally texted me saying she was outside with him and to stop worrying about her.
I asked if she was coming back because the concert was almost over. She said “idk probably.”
Concert ends. Still no sign of her.
I called her again and she declined it.
I waited around for almost 45 minutes while everyone was leaving. I texted her one last time saying I was leaving in 10 minutes if she didn’t come back.
Nothing.
So I left.
About 30 minutes into my drive home she started blowing up my phone asking where I was.
Apparently the guy had left and she came back to where we were parked expecting me to still be there.
She ended up having to call her mom to come get her.
Now she’s furious because we specifically agreed we wouldn’t leave each other, especially being that far from home.
I told her that agreement goes both ways. I’m not standing in an empty concert parking lot indefinitely because she disappeared with some guy and kept ignoring me.
She says I should’ve never left without physically knowing she had a safe way home.
I do feel bad that her mom had to drive an hour to get her, and I know girls are supposed to look out
for each other in situations like that.
But I also gave her multiple chances to come back.
AITAH?