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How do you use and store formula when it’s only for occasional/backup feeds?

Hi everyone! My baby is 7 weeks old, and my pediatrician suggested Similac Advance 1 as a backup/occasional feed.
I’m a little confused about the storage and usage instructions. The pack says to use within 2 weeks of opening, but I don’t think I’ll be able to finish the entire pack within that time if I’m only using formula occasionally.
For parents who use formula mainly as a backup:

  1. How do you manage an opened pack?

  2. Is there any safe way to extend the 2-week usage period?

  3. How do you store the opened formula properly?

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u/Adventurous-Rub5764 — 1 day ago
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Formula

Hi everyone! I have an almost 6-week-old baby boy. Due to my flat nipples, my baby was introduced to a bottle early on and has mostly been fed expressed breast milk.

He is now able to latch, but the latch is still quite shallow, and he tends to latch only when he is sleepy or very calm. When he is more alert, he usually prefers the bottle. I’ve been exclusively pumping every 3–4 hours, and honestly, it has become quite exhausting.

I’m still hoping to work towards more direct breastfeeding, but I’m also considering introducing one formula feed at night just to give myself a little break. It’s only a thought at this point, and I’m trying to understand my options.

For those who have been through something similar:

  1. What helped your baby transition from bottle to breast?
    2.Did anything in particular help with a shallow latch or bottle preference?
    3.If you introduced formula, which formula did your baby tolerate well?
    4.Did you find that one formula feed affected your breastfeeding/pumping journey or milk supply?

I’d really appreciate any experiences, tips, tricks, or advice. ❤️ I’m feeling a little overwhelmed with the constant pumping and would love to hear from other moms who have gone through something similar.

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u/Adventurous-Rub5764 — 10 days ago
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Latching struggles

Hi everyone,
I have a beautiful baby boy born on 2nd July 2026. ❤️ My induction started on** 1st Jul**y, but labour wasn’t progressing, so I ended up having an emergency C-section.
In the recovery room, the nurse brought my baby to me, expressed some colostrum, and said my milk supply looked great. But she also pointed out that I have flat nipples—and that’s where our breastfeeding journey became challenging.
Even in the hospital, I didn’t receive much practical help. The lactation consultants weren’t very hands-on, and by the time I was discharged, I had very little confidence in breastfeeding. I was also advised to pump for 30 minutes every 3 hours, which ended up causing an oversupply and made things even more overwhelming.
Once I got home, I found an amazing in-home lactation consultant. She completely changed my pumping schedule and duration, and that alone made me feel so much better mentally. Since then, I’ve been pumping and bottle-feeding using the Philips Avent Natural Response bottle.
I’m still trying to breastfeed whenever I can. My baby won’t latch if he’s very hungry, so I only try when he’s calm. He occasionally gets a shallow latch on my left breast, but he rarely wants to latch on the right. At best, we manage one latch every day or two.
Honestly, the constant cycle of pumping, washing pump parts, sterilising, feeding, and repeating is exhausting. More than anything, I just wish my little boy could feed directly from me. It would make life so much easier, but more importantly, it’s something I really want for both of us.
I’ve watched countless breastfeeding tutorials, but I honestly don’t find them relatable. The demonstrations with dolls and crocheted breasts don’t reflect what it’s actually like to breastfeed a real baby with flat nipples, larger breasts, and bigger areolas. I wish there were more realistic demonstrations.
Some days I spiral into negative thoughts—what if he never learns to latch? On top of that, I constantly feel pressure from my family to breastfeed directly, as if I’m not already trying everything I possibly can.
The hardest part is seeing my baby get frustrated after just a couple of minutes of trying. He cries so hard, sometimes even seems to hold his breath, and it honestly scares me enough to stop trying.
I don’t know if this is just a rant or if I’m looking for advice. But if anyone has been through something similar—especially with flat nipples and a baby who struggled to latch—I’d really appreciate hearing your experience. Did things eventually get better? What helped?
P.S. I’m based in India.

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u/Adventurous-Rub5764 — 25 days ago