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Daig pa ng friend ko ang lalakeng walang emotional intelligence

I have been friends with this certain girl for almost a decade na. We were ride or die. Each other’s 911. Not until life became different.

Magkaiba kami ng naging program na tinake. But I made sure the contact and bond were still there. So, when I hd time, pinupuntahan ko siya and naghahang out kami.

That’s when I realized, what was supposed to be a low maintenance type of friendship ay ako na lang pala ang nag eeffort. I tried bringing this up.

Hanggang sa nabuntis siya, and I had to forget about that tampo. When she needed me, I would always drop everything I was currently doing and puntahan siya.

I would go above and beyond. Not until one day, I was so sad. I told her baka pwede punta muna siya sa bahay so we can bond, she told me hindi raw siya pwede.

I told her sige ok lang, but then I saw her story na nag inuman sila. And then came another invite, night swimming sana, hindi siya tumuloy kasi wala raw pera yung friend niya (hindi naman talaga dapat kasama yun kasi di namin close), hinayaan ko kahit yung story nila is nag bar.

My last straw was when my dog died and I felt all alone (literal na I’m living alone kasi) I asked her baka pwede punta sya don kasi para malibang ako kahit papaano. Sabi “hindi ako papayagan ng ate ko e”, and that’s when I realized it all. Na ako na lang ang nag e-effort.

I sent her a long ass paragraph about how I felt, and GUESS WHAT, SEENZONED. I was actually expecting magkaroon siya ng realizations. Leche. Daig pa bf ng ibang babae dyan na walang pakealam sa nararamdaman mo HAHAHAHAHAHA.

Komedya ang masasabi ko sa buong pinagsamahan namin. I guess me being left on read was the answer I needed all along.

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u/AdvertisingMuch7383 — 11 hours ago

First time ko mamatayan ng alaga, sobrang sakit pala.

I adopted my dog few months ago and alagang alaga ko talaga siya. First time ko rin talaga msg hands on. Pero, with the help of my fur mon friends din. Okay na okay ang samahan namin.

Lumipat ako ng boarding house kasi gusto ko sana mapalawak yung tinatakbuhan niya. Kapag umaalis ako, naka cage siya tapos syempre tatahol yan. Maingay, oo. Pero kung isstay kk sya sa loob ng kwarto ko, maiinitan siya. Lagi naman aki humihingi ng psensya sa mga kapitbahay. Katagalan, nakasanayan na niya.

Kaso, kahapon, paggising ko (usually tahol nya nagsisilbing alarm clock ko) hindi na siya tumatahol. Umiiyak pa siya. Sumuka na siya ng dugo. Sobrang hina. Hindi na kasing playful ng dati.

Dinala namin agad sa vet, kaso masyado na raw siyang mahina. Wala na raw pag asa.

Ang sakit pala, nagseseizure siya sa harap ko and suka nang suka ng dugo. My poor baby. Sinusubukannya pa rin bumangon despite it all. Kaso, wala na talaga. She died din yesterday.

All if it happened sa ISANG ARAW LANG. Suspected namin ay lason or baka sa sobrang init ng panahonz

At kung lason man, tangina ng mga taong ganyan sa hayop. Putangina kayo may kalalagyan kayo sa impyerno.

I’m probably gonna pause my furmom journey, di ko pa sya kaya palitan. Andito pa mga gamit niya, pero yung tahol ng baby ko kapag uuwi ako, wala na. Nag eecho na lang sa utak ko.

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u/AdvertisingMuch7383 — 9 days ago

Relatives becoming our biggest enemies

Alam niyo, it’s sad losing a close relative as a friend. Or as someone you can make chika with dahil lang sa pera.

For context, my mom died when I was young. Yung sumunod sa kaniya, yung tita ko which is super close ko even when my mom was still alive. Fast forward, I was basically her own child. Tumutuloy sila sa bahay ko (cause I became an orphan) and sil tumuloy ng business ko.

When the day came and I started asking questions about the business that my parents left, they started getting distant. Nawala ang bond dahil lang hindi nila maaamin sa akin na nabankrupt ang pinaghirapan ng parents ko. Kasabay non, her husband sexually harassed me too. I expected her to defend me but she was insisting I provoked her husband by wearing short shorts. Alangan, I was fucking 10 years old that time. How would I know?

In short, walang natira. Naubos ang clients namin. Even the biggest ones like — Jollibee, Mercury Drug, and SM. It was a security agency. And it doesn’t stop there, nabaon pa kami sa utang. So yung savings sana na para sa pang college ko, wala. Ubos na ubos talaga.

Wala naman sa akin yung pera, I mean it’s hella important kasi ngayon nahihirapan ako sa college. Pero, alam niyo yung sana kahit ganon e naging honest man lang sana. Inamin na lang ba sana na unti-unti nang nawawala. E kaso hindi e.

Bukod don, it didn’t feel like she was my kakampi at all and it’s very disappointing. Pretty sure my mom would’ve been disappointed too.

To my tita, Happy Mother’s Day pa rin kahit tinalikuran mo ako nung pinaka kailangan kita. Babangon ako. Pero hindi na kita kikilalanin.

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