Daig pa ng friend ko ang lalakeng walang emotional intelligence
I have been friends with this certain girl for almost a decade na. We were ride or die. Each other’s 911. Not until life became different.
Magkaiba kami ng naging program na tinake. But I made sure the contact and bond were still there. So, when I hd time, pinupuntahan ko siya and naghahang out kami.
That’s when I realized, what was supposed to be a low maintenance type of friendship ay ako na lang pala ang nag eeffort. I tried bringing this up.
Hanggang sa nabuntis siya, and I had to forget about that tampo. When she needed me, I would always drop everything I was currently doing and puntahan siya.
I would go above and beyond. Not until one day, I was so sad. I told her baka pwede punta muna siya sa bahay so we can bond, she told me hindi raw siya pwede.
I told her sige ok lang, but then I saw her story na nag inuman sila. And then came another invite, night swimming sana, hindi siya tumuloy kasi wala raw pera yung friend niya (hindi naman talaga dapat kasama yun kasi di namin close), hinayaan ko kahit yung story nila is nag bar.
My last straw was when my dog died and I felt all alone (literal na I’m living alone kasi) I asked her baka pwede punta sya don kasi para malibang ako kahit papaano. Sabi “hindi ako papayagan ng ate ko e”, and that’s when I realized it all. Na ako na lang ang nag e-effort.
I sent her a long ass paragraph about how I felt, and GUESS WHAT, SEENZONED. I was actually expecting magkaroon siya ng realizations. Leche. Daig pa bf ng ibang babae dyan na walang pakealam sa nararamdaman mo HAHAHAHAHAHA.
Komedya ang masasabi ko sa buong pinagsamahan namin. I guess me being left on read was the answer I needed all along.