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I had a breakup this year and the relationship was 3 years and 6 months....so yaa it definitely hurts very bad but I am trying to move forward because i finally realized she wasn't the one...well that's a long story but I am trying to find love, tried a few dating apps, came here also tried to find someone in some community or post etc but the more i chase or look for love I feel like it is getting away from me and I have heard that love comes to you when you are not finding it and I am starting to believe it because I am so desperate to find someone and it isn't working so....I just want to ask you people is this the same experience with you all? Like when you look for love it doesn't come but when you are just not expecting it...it just shows up out of nowhere.