u/Advisor_Playful

So i manifested my sp idk if this is a success story or not

STORY: we have been friends for 2 yrs i have always had feelings for him but he used to say he didn’t have any feelings and this jan i proposed to him second time but he rejected me saying i don’t see myself being in a relationship with my close frnds so i decided to lock in and manifest him i manifested him to love me from this april and i went to his city on an exam purpose and we planned to have a meet up since 2 months and i manifested that meet up would change everything between us and it did!!!!!! Like we booked a room and we were in same room we got intimate and since then he is obsessed with me but he still says all this is still casual relationship because i manifested this to be casual even tho i love him so much and have known him for 2 yrs i always wanted to see how it looks to be in relationship with him i don’t wanna rush myself into this relationship so i decided to take things slow so i put a deadline for him to propose me this November and iam manifesting this, in this meantime i manifested him to be obsessed with me devoted to me and he is obsessed with and devoted to me

he never did any of those romantic gestures to anyone he kisses me through phone calls and asks and begs me to kiss him on call (he used call all this stuff cringe back then now he is the one who is doing all this stuff) he tries to prove that he doesn’t have anyone when i doubt him (i have trust issues) he would be a very aggressive person who used to get irritated all the time over small things and used to get angry at me very easily and was a very egoistic person who would never call first but now i manifested him to stop being angry , irritated all the time and he is now a very calm and cool person who doesn’t get angry easily, calls me first but he still uses casual tag sometimes which i don’t mind coz it is me who manifested that so that ain’t a problem for me coz ik he will be proposing me this coming November i even manifested him to go gym this monday he went too but he kinda met with an accident on Tuesday so he had to stop going and iam telling you those 2 years weren’t really easy the way we would fight goddddd!!!! i guess no friends would fight like that he blocked me thrice in those 2 yrs ( he isn’t a kind of guy who blocks people so blocking me three times was actually a big thing ) i had been the one who would break no contact all the time he was never even bothered that i would leave him back then it was really a roller coaster ride for me to manifest him i never thought i would make him fall for me this hard coz he was an AVOIDANT!!!!! But i believed that he is mine he is obsessed with me he is loyal to me and i kept my sc high even tho i sometimes spiral and those negative thoughts cross my mind i immediately go back to that belief and affirm myself that he loves me so much he is obsessed with me and he is devoted to me so that’s how i manifested him the way i want him to be

we have been frnds for 2 yrs but he rejected me twice saying i can’t see myself being in any kind of relationship with my frnds i was rejected in January then i started ignoring him tho we were in contact i started working on myself then i sent a text to him on his birthday which was kinda emotional and since then things have started getting better and we had a plan of booking a room on april 11 and on that day we were kinda close physically but mostly it was just a make out and he was caring calm on that day and all , later after 2 days i wanted to know what’s going on btw us so i asked him “will u get bored of me??” And had a fight with him then i went back to him after 2 days then i kinda put him off the pedestal like i was just being me believing he would be calm talk to me like iam his girl and things started to change like just after 2 days of manifesting all this i even manifested him to be cool he is an aggressive and egoistic person then he himself said he wanted to be calm not to react with anger and wants to change his behaviour he also kissed me through phone and being clingy i never thought he would be like this clingy he even told that iam his girl and he can only be this open with no filters only with me , all this happened just 5 days ago him being a lovey dovey guy and i was happy then simce yesterday i couldn’t sit with the peace he has been giving me so i started thinking from yesterday that what if i get bored of him what if he gets bored of me and today he again said we are casual and we have emotional attachment and i think this is better and also said fuck love fuck marriage and all so am I manifesting this casual thing without knowing subconsciously coz he was sweet when i was confident he talks like this when i think of him getting bored or me getting bored of me i mean i can see the change instantaneously all of this just happened in a span of 20 days and idk what’s wrong with me? Someone help can i manifest him to be a committed person ???