u/Affectionate_Diet690

First off all, I’ve been trying to find posts that relate to the feelings I have and it’s not really the same and I also am kinda new to posting on here (typically spend my time browsing) so to an extent I’m trying to mimic the language. I’ve been feeling especially lately that my girlfriend, a woman I love deeply to her core, just always seems to complain about issues that really seem almost shallow to me. I guess a lot of what irritates me as well is that it’s issues that me and her are so fortunate enough not to suffer from. Her main complains are always things like how the world is set up and how she hates working her job when the reality is we are young and new college students who really don’t have choices but to work. What specifically bugs me about her complaining is that she really has never experienced hard ship. Her family is extremely well off, her dad was a computer science major before the sudden boom and her mom literally owns a “elder care” company. She lives in a nice house in a wealthy gated neighborhood, and just for example, her parents have bought her 3 cars after each broke down, and her sister who just graduated was gifted a new car. I feel like I’m on the opposite spectrum. I come from a home where my parents were illegal immigrants and didn’t have anything when we got to the USA. My earliest memory is of us getting evicted and having to move in to my uncles cramped duplex. I bought my first car with money I saved from working during high school, and to this day we haven’t had anything come to us easy. We’re a lot better off now but that wasn’t without anyone’s hard work. Maybe I’m just dramatic, but it’s beginning to get almost irritating I guess.