u/Afraid-Fix-661

Today I got rejected by a girl that I’ve had an eye for, for over a year. We didn’t start talking until a couple of days ago, and she’s only been aware of my existence for about a week. I quickly realised how she never started a single conversation, but was very talkative and interested once I’ve started one. It genuinely felt like it was going somewhere. Today I asked her if she wanted to hangout on Saturday, and she sent my a message saying «I can’t hangout, because I’ve got plans with (my ex’s full name)», which I don’t believe at all because I know for a fact that they aren’t that close. They do however have many mutual friends. We started talking about it, and I told her that I don’t think that my ex would’ve had anything against us hanging out, which she agreed to, but explained how it still would’ve felt uncomfortable for her. I totally understand it and realise that I have to let her go. It feels really unfair, how a 2 year old relationship which only lasted a couple of months, are still affecting literally EVERYTHING that can lead to a future. I just kinda felt I had to get it off my chest somewhere. Has anyone else been in a similar situation or have any thoughts/advice?

Met her in town with a couple of friends and I thought she was cute. Asked her if she was single and if I could get her Snapchat. The last couple of days she literally hasn’t started a single conversation and is ghosting every single snap (picture) I send, but once I write her something she’s really not dry at all and she genuinely seems interested in chatting. We can send chats back and forth for hours after I’ve sent the first one. Do I ask her to meet me for a quick coffee tomorrow, or should I wait a bit more, or should I let go? I’m really confused.

I saw her at the stadium where our local football team was playing a match. My friend introduced us, and we had great conversations! We talked about what she's going to do the day after, what she did the day before, who she was there with, and a whole bunch of stuff, and we actually ended up dancing a bit together at a party later that day. She was really energetic and smiling the whole time, and I felt like it was going great. I finally asked if she was single, and she said yes. I then asked for her Snapchat, and she typed it in herself. She smiled when I asked her. The day after, I had to start the conversation and keep it alive. Today, my snap has been on delivered for 20 hours plus. And no, the conversations didn't go wrong. I know it's probably silly, but I've never even asked for a girl's snap, number, Insta, or anything before, and I really like this one. I'm actually surprised I actually dared to ask her. I've had an eye for her for over a year. I guess the ultimate goal here is to meet her again. Any experienced people on here who can tell me whether I'm simply being dramatic or if I should be a bit worried?