21F extremely bored and extremely honest will answer any question
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I can’t stand the idea of a guy who watches porn and I’m going to end up alone because of it. I literally feel like it’s cucking PLUS it’s weird to me since so many of the women are only doing it because they had no other option. I don’t know how to come to terms with this if I’m being honest but it’s become increasingly clear that i WILL end up alone because that is a boundary i cannot move and I have also never met a guy who doesn’t watch. And Im not gonna tell a guy NOT to watch because that’s not how boundaries work all I do is remove myself from the situation if I learn he does but every single guy does it so i have removed myself from every single “situation.”How have you guys dealt with having “impossible standards” / the idea you will end up being alone? I am not looking to be told I should grow up and be okay with my man cranking it to other naked women either that is not the advice i’m looking for. And to be clear I don’t care if he like imagines other women in his HEAD while he masturbates or stuff it’s the active consumption of usually underprivileged women’s bodies an sometimes potentially trafficked women’s bodies which is the issue. Again looking for ways to cope with being alone not being told to change my boundary. EDIT: PLEASE STOP GIVING ME YOUR OPINIONS ON PORN OR IF YOU BELIEVE THERE ARE MEN WHO DONT WATCH IT. THE ONLY QUESTION I ACTUALLY ASKED WAS: How have you dealt with the idea you will end up being alone? Second edit: a lot of the women here are saying their bfs don’t watch porn but all of the men are saying that they do and they are lying to u…
Her rants on plastic surgery and the songs where she criticizes it piss me off so freaking bad. Like of course you have “come to terms” with ur looks when THAT is what you look like. I have a friend who is a model too who is always like.. “it’s so sad everyone should just love themselves” easy for u to say. idk i genuinely don’t care about any naturally attractive persons opinion on plastic surgery the same way i don’t care about any man’s opinion on abortion. If an ugly person hates plastic surgery that’s at least a much more respectable position.
Literally look at any of the am i ugly subreddits everyone always is like no ur so pretty on almost all people even if the person is objectively ugly. People in your real life will tell you you aren’t ugly so you don’t rope.