Very confusing feelings between me and my friend
I (20m) don’t know how I feel about my friend, and it seems like they (20f) might also not know — in a romantic sense. I’ve worked with Sara since high school at our part time job, but we’ve become better friends this year. I’ve always thought she was cool, but for some reason her vibe towards me rly felt like it shifted a couple of months ago, and it seemed like she was being more flirty. Maybe it’s cuz I’ve always thought she was beautiful, but this vibe shift made me start to have odd feelings for her. They’re odd bc they’re so intense but idk what it is. I think about her so often. I love hearing her laugh and seeing her smile. But idk if I actually have feelings for her or if her recent want to get closer has just made me this way. And if I do have feelings for her it’s complicated bc I don’t know what I would want to do.
It’s complicated for a few reasons. First, bc I’m moving soon. Idk what relationship if any we’d want to have would fit in that timeframe, or she might not be looking for a casual thing. Second, bc my friend has had feelings for her in the past. I feel like I can’t do anything with Sara w/o hurting my friend. Third, she’s a friend I don’t want to lose a friend. Fourth, I can’t tell at all what she’s thinking.
What should I do, how do I go about this??