My straight barber of over 5 years keeps coming over to my place — should I say something?
So I’ve been going to the same barber for over 5 years now. He knows I’m gay, never been weird about it, we’ve got a solid relationship at this point.
Every now and then we do little favors for each other — I’ll give him stuff I don’t need, he’ll grab it from my place, that kind of thing. He always comes inside when he does.
Today after my haircut I casually mentioned I had a cologne I was getting rid of and that I’d just bring it next time I came in for a cut. But literally as soon as I got to my car he texted me saying he could just come pick it up after work today instead of waiting.
I’ve always had a little wonder in the back of my head but I don’t wanna ruin a 5 year friendship or make things weird at the barbershop. He’s always been straight as far as I know.
Am I reading too much into this or would you have done something? How would you even approach it without making it awkward if you were in my position? I’m just trying to give head to be honest. Please don’t judge me. lol