I (17M) feel like my partner (17F) doesn’t want to be physical with me at all anymore.
So I (17M) have been with my partner (17F) for 2 years. It was great at the beginning. We’d kiss goodbye, hug, and we’d have intimate moments (both sexual and not) frequently.
A year in, we started to have arguments but we made up and continued having the same kisses goodbye and so on.
This year (2 years now) we got in a major argument that landed with me getting advice from my parents. We took a break for a couple of weeks and decided to try again, but she’s mad at my dad for flipping out at her parents who weren’t involved at all. From that, she doesn’t want to go to his house (my parents are divorced) which was our main way of being able to be intimate (STS cuddling, etc).
And now, it feels like we’re friends now. We don’t kiss goodbye, we barely hug and we only had intimacy around two times this year. I try to initiate anything, even quick pecks on the lips but she still turns me down and instead makes me kiss her forehead or do nothing at all.
The thought that she isn’t attracted to me anymore is eating at me every night. My love language is physical touch and it kills me to not be able to do any of that with my partner. How can I approach her about this?
If there’s anything confusing pls let me know and I’ll try my best to explain, thank you so much for your help.