I don't know how to date women. I just got out of the closet.
Hello po,
Problem/Goal: I don't know how to date women.
Context:
So ayun. Kaka-out ko pa lang sa mga kakilala ko. Actually alam ko naman na na I am bisexual college pa lang. I know too late na para sa iba sa inyo. But yeah, I've had girl crushes since elem. Pero I've been so strict with myself that I thought I need to be in a relationship with a woman first before I can label myself as Bi. Nung college lang ako nagkaroon ng attraction with a woman na I am willing to date. So that is when I realized that I am gay. Pero laging wala sa timing kasi that time may jowa siya nun.
But now na ang tanda ko na haha #28. I realized na hindi rin naman ako makakahanap ng woman to date if I don't go out of the closet. So now that I am out. I don't really know how to date.
My first relationship was with a man. It is not a good relationship to be honest. He crossed every boundary that I set and even cheated on me. I healed, moved on, and was alone for years.
Now I know that I am fully ready to put myself out there and date. But I don't know how to date. Haha. And I don't like dating apps because most of the time they are not looking for something serious. I am looking for my wife and not some casual sht.
I don't have LGBTQIA+ sa circle of friends ko. So dito na lang ako nag ask for advice. Haha
May mga nabasa rin ako na red flags daw mga bisexual. I don't know saan nanggaling yun.
So ayun. Please give me advice or something I need to know or something you wanted your past self to know that will also help me.
Thank you in advance!!