I really like the name Cerberus, but I have a few reservations. I feel like it is to long, and I can't find a way to shorten it in a way I like. I also feel like I won't be taken seriously with that name, and others might view it as more masc then I want it to be. I am wanting to see how others feel about it and also would love to hear other name suggestions too!
I recently have realized I'm nonbinary and want to change my name. I would love one based around greek/norse mythology it can stem from named to (ex I was thinking Fen short for Fenrir) Any ideas?
I identified as a gay man but have been questioning my gender for a few months and I think I am non-binary now. I told my bf back in March that I was questioning my gender and that I wanted to use He/They pronouns. Now, however, I want to use exclusively They/Them pronouns but I'm terrified to tell him. Idk why, we are both adults, we live together when Im not in college. He has been nothing but supportive, he has had questions during this process but nothing hurtful so I don't get why I can't say the words.
Long rant sorry. A few months ago it was like a switch in my brain just flicked and I finally decided I was willing to explore my gender. I am AMAB and attracted to men/masculine people. I feel connected to aspects of my masculinity as well but sometimes I feel like a very small part of me has feminine qualities. But there is also an other feeling, that I don't have the words to describe.
I started using He/They pronouns which turned into They/He pronouns and now it feels like 90% of the time I want gender neutral terms to refer to me except in very specific circumstances that are often sexual (trying to avoid nsfw) where I want masculine terms. But also its not the end of the world if someone uses masculine terms for me but it feels really good when they use NB ones.
Right now I have kinda been saying I'm genderfluid but that doesn't feel 100% true because I never feel like a woman and I feel masculine but rarely like 100% man. I also have grown so close to my MLM identity it feels hard to let go. I think my biggest worry is one of my best friends is nb and Im scared if I label myself as that but end up being wrong and changing my mind I might make them feel like their identity isn't valid or that I don't see them and their experience. I guess I just don't know what I can do to help me figure out wth is up and I don't like not knowing things about myself and I've been spiraling.