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Not gonna say the exact day we went but it was in the last 2 months we went to the conjuring house in rhode island and we snuck through the woods into the backyard and we saw a grave stone in the middle of the back yard and a bunch of white chairs in a non completed circle we then kept getting close to the house and saw a shit ton on cameras and then we successfully opened the back porch door but couldnt actually get into the house. Yes non of this was a good idea. My question is since there are a ton of bad spirits there are we getting haunted by those bad spirits? I haven’t experienced anything yet.

Not gonna say the exact day we went but it was in the last 2 months we went to the conjuring house in rhode island and we snuck through the woods into the backyard and we saw a grave stone in the middle of the back yard and a bunch of white chairs in a non completed circle we then kept getting close to the house and saw a shit ton on cameras and then we successfully opened the back porch door but couldnt actually get into the house. Yes non of this was a good idea. My question is since there are a ton of bad spirits there are we getting haunted by those bad spirits? I haven’t experienced anything yet.

I’m 18 and recently graduated high school. My best friend is 16 and turns 17 in September. My sister is 20 and is going into her junior year of college.
My best friend and I have known each other for about 9 years. We’re very close, but we’re pretty different. He smokes, drinks, parties, and gets a lot of girls. I’m an athlete and don’t smoke or drink, and I usually don’t party with him because he has a separate friend group for that.
My sister is the complete opposite. She doesn’t smoke, barely drinks, and doesn’t really party. My best friend has known her for years because he’s always been around my family. We’d all hang out sometimes, and I knew they had each other on Snapchat, but I never thought anything of it.
At the beginning of summer, we were all at the beach and my best friend told me he thought my sister liked him. I was shocked. He started asking me if I would care if he got with my sister. I always responded with things like “bro,” “chill,” or “idk.” I thought it was weird, especially because he’s 16 and she’s 20.
He also kept telling me my sister was giving him a lot of attention over text, which started annoying me.
A few weeks later, my sister started giving him rides and going to his house, sometimes staying until 1 AM. My mom started getting upset about her coming home so late. I eventually told my mom that I thought my sister liked my best friend, and my mom said she thought he might be a fake friend.
The biggest issue was that they started lying to me. Whenever I asked my sister where she was, she’d say she was with a friend. Whenever I asked my best friend, he’d say he was with another friend.
Eventually I decided to find out for myself. I went to my best friend’s house and saw my sister’s car there. I asked him if he was with my sister and he said no. I could see his location was in the car, so I went to Target and saw them together.
I texted both of them, and they still acted like they weren’t together. I eventually confronted my sister. She denied everything at first, but when I told her everything I knew, she didn’t really know what to say. She then told my best friend about the confrontation.
I never even confronted my best friend. I just removed him from Snapchat.
What hurts me most isn’t necessarily that my sister likes him. My sister is 20 and can make her own decisions. It’s the fact that both of them repeatedly lied to me when I directly asked them.
I know I probably shouldn’t have done the whole “stakeout” thing at Target, but I was frustrated and wanted to know if they were actually lying. Once I found out they were together, I knew I wasn’t imagining things.
Now I don’t know what to do. I don’t like drama or negativity, and I don’t want to fight with my sister or destroy a 9-year friendship. But I also don’t feel like I can trust my best friend anymore.
So Reddit, Should I try talking to my best friend eventually, or should I just leave the friendship alone?