u/Aggressive-Bidet

I (32F) have been friends with this girl (28F) for about 4 years now. We had a falling out about a year ago because she didn’t like how I talked about my exes to her. She said the things I said about them were really harsh (which they were. It’s a fair statement). I no longer vent to her about breakups or men. I vent to my other girlfriends. Our relationship got better, but it’s not the same.

I found out later that she had been talking to a few of my exes behind my back. Texting them to see how they were doing, following them on social media, and she even called one because “she had a random question that she knew he would know”. I brushed it off because honestly I didn’t want to lose her as a friend again and I’m over those exes.

Now, I’m possibly rekindling something with an ex from 3 years ago and he told me that she has been in contact with one of his friends and telling him everything that I’ve been up to since we’ve been broken up. Every guy I’ve dated, any little bit of drama. And he’s not lying because he told me things that he would have no way of knowing if it weren’t for her. I can’t even wrap my head around why I’ve been a topic of conversation. I had a great relationship with his friends and now they all know everything that I’ve divulged to my friend in confidence from the past 3 years and they’ve then told my ex. I don’t even know how to go about this.

Before you comment telling me go to the vet. THAT WAS THE FIRST THING I DID. I scooped him up and took him to the vet within 10 minutes of this happening.

Background: Cat is 14 yrs old, neutered, diabetic for 3 years. Managed with diabetic food and insulin 2x a day. He also has arthritis. In the US

I got home and let one of my cats in from our screened in catio. I heard a faint screaming from our other cat. I thought I had accidentally left him behind when letting in the one. But no, he was in the basement trying to wedge himself in between two plastic tubs (bins whatever you want to call them) which is very unlike him and screaming. I thought he may have gotten himself stuck so I pulled him out and set him down. I noticed he was very lethargic and having trouble walking. He was screaming and crawling to the litterbox and peed outside of it (again very unlike him). So I grabbed him, put him in the carrier and called my vet.

At the vet they said he was breathing deeply so they put him on oxygen and noted that he was pale. They ran XRays and bloodwork. In the end, they just said that his blood sugar is low and he has a little bit of pancreatitis. He got food and subQ fluids. They confirmed no fluid around the lungs or heart which was their initial concern. I don’t know if they tested for a blood clot.

When we got home, he is acting the same way. He threw up all the food in the car. Still is having trouble walking. He finally made it to a corner of a room, but had walking diarrhea on the way there. He was also screaming while doing so. I am having a hard time believing that it’s just hypoglycemia.