u/Aggressive-Network99

I need some advice , I am not hopeless

Please help me I am not a stupid guy and I dont even look bad facially . I have some nice muscles that look natural . I have a long hair and I am 20 years old.

I have been approached by women but I couldnt escalate it to intimacy level. I have had a girlfriend in the end of high school , she had approached me first. I wasnt fully attracted to her and it just didnt worked out ,the chemistry between us. I have been liked by people I wasnt seen as a creep. I was playing clarinet at that time. I am in collage now its my second year. I dont have female friends yet a girfriend I dont know where to start or what to do.

1 month ago in metro while going to my home a girl approached me and wanted to meet. I get her instagram we went on a date we sit in a park talked for several hours we continued messaging on phone but at the end it didnt work out. She wanted to friendzone me but I said that I dont need 'just friends' because I already had enough.

I am now talking with another on instagram we sometimes message but she followed me first I didnt know her before.

Also a year ago I had meet some girls in foreign country with my friends from a dating app . We didnt have s.x but made up that night kissing touching whatever. She was pretty attractive and she looked genuinely attracted to me also. My friends couldnt escalated thier situation with her friends so I couldnt go further near them .

But thats my situation pls I need some help

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u/Aggressive-Network99 — 7 days ago

I need advice , I am not hopeless

Please help me I am not a stupid guy and I dont even look bad facially . I have some nice muscles that look natural . I have a long hair and I am 20 years old.

I have been approached by women but I couldnt escalate it to intimacy level. I have had a girlfriend in the end of high school , she had approached me first. I wasnt fully attracted to her and it just didnt worked out ,the chemistry between us. I have been liked by people I wasnt seen as a creep. I was playing clarinet at that time. I am in collage now its my second year. I dont have female friends yet a girfriend I dont know where to start or what to do.

1 month ago in metro while going to my home a girl approached me and wanted to meet. I get her instagram we went on a date we sit in a park talked for several hours we continued messaging on phone but at the end it didnt work out. She wanted to friendzone me but I said that I dont need 'just friends' because I already had enough.

I am now talking with another on instagram we sometimes message but she followed me first I didnt know her before.

Also a year ago I had meet some girls in foreign country with my friends from a dating app . We didnt have s.x but made up that night kissing touching whatever. She was pretty attractive and she looked genuinely attracted to me also. My friends couldnt escalated thier situation with her friends so I couldnt go further near them .

But thats my situation pls I need some help

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u/Aggressive-Network99 — 7 days ago