u/Agitated-Cow3086

I have a 27y/o dyslexic brother who is travelling for the first time to somewhere far and my mum expects me to “be there for him” so that he knows what to pack and all for his trip. But i accidentally scheduled a short 3D2N trip with my friends and will only be back on the day that he flies.

Me and my mum got into a heated discussion and she feels that I should not have went for my trip amd should have stayed and help my brother in his packing/checking for his pre-travel stuff. But to me, my brother is so old, and I am just 2 years older than him. I cant help much but advise. And how does me being around help my brother? Not like i’m the one travelling.. But to my mum, she says I no longer think about family and only think of myself. Am I in the wrong?

I come from an Asian family btw.

How do you get rid of imposter syndrome at the workplace? I can tell myself that as long as I give it my best, it is good enough for myself. But I cant shake off the feeling about how other people view me… I also tell myself that work is just work, but damn… it’s easier said than done..

Why do bosses like to reward capable and overachieving workers with more work? Do they think we can handle more work just because we are more capable? Where is the fairness when everyone is the same rank but one gets more duties vs another who maybe made a mistake or two, but is deemed “uncapable” and so gets lesser duties..