We broke up a week ago and i was the problem we had a massive fight then she cut me off
I cant live with the hope that we might get back together but we won’t
I wanna send her “fuck it i miss u”
At least if there’s no more hope she will ghost me and i’ll move on But at the same time my ego refuse
Please tell me yes or no to send it
Two weeks ago, before my ex-girlfriend and I started having major arguments, she told me she was really craving a specific salad and asked if I could make it for her. I happily agreed. But two days later, she got into a car accident, everything became chaotic, she lost her appetite, and we ended up in non-stop fights until she officially broke up with me two days ago. (The blame 70% on me)
I currently need to return a personal item to her sister (something belonging to her mother). I am wondering: would it be weird or sweet if I actually made that salad she craved weeks ago, and sent it with the item for her sister to give to her?
On one hand, I want to keep my promise and show her I remember the little things. On the other hand, since we just broke up two days ago because she felt "drained," I’m worried it might come off as too much, or look like an indirect way of pushing her boundaries.
What do you think? Should I just return the item alone, or make the salad too? I really do miss her but i cant break no contact
Send help im not kidding
Im 22F, i just broke up with my gf 2 days ago, she the one who ended it and our relationship was only 3 months but was the best 3 months ever.. i had my first kiss with her, we did so much and she was so gentle that makes me cry of love
After the breakup i cant live normal again, im thinking the only way to take this pain away is to kms
I cant eat i cant drink, i have finals i cant study, i cant take shower or anything, im literally dead
Please tell me it gets better im really hoping to d*e i cant take it anymore
I got into a relationship with my masc girlfriend 3 months ago, and she’s my first wlw relationship. We were genuinely good together and loved each other a lot. She’s a very sensitive person, and I always tried my best to be considerate of that.
About two weeks ago, she and her sister got into a car accident. I immediately went to the hospital when it happened, but she didn’t let me stay long and told me to go home. She got injured and stayed home for a week afterward. During that whole week, I tried not to overwhelm her because my way of showing love when someone is sick is by giving them space and not burdening them with too much talking or attention. I kept checking on her, asking about her pain, listening to her vent, and a few days later I visited her at home with food, a homemade immunity drink, and a gift to cheer her up.
But something had been bothering me the whole time: she told me her ex got to the hospital before I did because her sister’s phone automatically alerted the ex. I didn’t bring it up at the time because she was in pain.
Around that period, she also kept telling me that there was a distance between us lately, that I’d started going out more without telling her )it happened only maybe a couple times), that we barely talked anymore, and that when she tried to tell me something hurt her, I would somehow turn it back on her. I told her I genuinely didn’t think I was blaming her, but maybe I had some built-up feelings because the ex situation really hurt me.
So I asked her:
“Did you send me home from the hospital because you didn’t want me to run into your ex?”
That question changed her completely. She exploded at me and got extremely angry. She told me that doubting her honesty is a huge trigger for her and that she’s always been truthful with me. I tried explaining that I wasn’t accusing her of anything, I was literally just asking because I needed reassurance.
The next day we talked more calmly, and she said:
“thats it, I need space.”
I begged her not to pull away and asked if we could work through it together, but she kept saying:
“There’s nothing you can fix. I just need time.”
Now it’s day four of complete silence. I’ve been crying nonstop and genuinely feel destroyed. I can’t understand how someone who loved me so much could suddenly distance themselves like this after our first real conflict.
I know I shouldn’t break no contact again because I already begged her to stay and she still chose distance. But I can’t stop wondering:
Did I really deserve this reaction over one question?
Was I actually that wrong?
Or is the punishment way bigger than the mistake?
My gf and i had a huge fight and she is so upset at me, at the end she said she needs time for a while and see if its the end or it can be solved,and i got so mad also bc she wanted to stay away from me from the first fight
I ended our snapchat streak bc i said if she didn’t want to hold our relationship I don’t want to hold a streak
Anyway now its been 3 days and she posted a tiktok post now, do u think is it okay to put like or stay away as long as she chose to stay away from me😿
مااعرف اذا هذا safe space عشان اتكلم بهالموضوع بس بتكلم
اول مره بحياتي احب وادخل بعلاقة wlw رغم اني كنت اكبر هوموفوبيك لكن طحت فيها
ماكملنا ٣ شهور والان شبه انفصلنا واقدر اقول ان احس قلبي بيطلع من مكانه، احس الدنيا ظلمت بوجهي واحس اني i cant live anymore،
How can I survive? ارجوكم انقذوني ماامزح الوضع جدّي
راسي صدع من الانهيار ماانهرت كذا لمن انفصلت عن اول bf
شخص قريب منكم جدا حبيب مثلا، هل طبيعي بعد اي هواش تمرضون جسديا؟
انا وهذا الشخص كل مره نتهاوش انهار بكاء وارجف برد واطرافي تبرد وترتفع حرارتي، قبل شويه صارت بيني وبينها هوشه كبيره من كثر ماحسيت انها النهايه برضو عيني تفقعت بكاء وحسيت اطرافي تجمدت وارتفعت حرارتي والان انا مرميه عالسرير مع البنادول
هل هذا طبيعي ولا انا احتاج دكتور نفسي او ايش بالضبط وايش سببه علموني قبل انجن، كيف افصل مشاعري عن هالشخص
When we argue i start crying and getting cold and then I end up being physically ill
We just had a big fight that i felt its the end of our relationship and I started sobbing and now im shaking of cold got a fever
Im sure this’s not normal but what’s the reason? And anyone else have the same problem?