Old Friend Has Traumatized Me
Hello. I would like to preface that I don't know if this is trauma or just me being a wuss. But I was put in a friendship that went south quickly. I will not state my age but I am a minor. About 3 years ago now this girl I will call K joined my class. My friend who I will call A befriended her and made our friend group be nice to her. I was an anxious person then, still am. And we slowly became friends and as time went on she got more comfortable and started to insult me once saying along the lines of how I was 'as big as a planet' and that I 'took up a square of a 4 square court' and I was dealing with body issues then and still am. Which made me feel hurt. Also once this year, I made a joke and she punched or slapped me, I don't remember well. But either way yeah. But I did something on a video call which I don't agree with at all and she videoed me without consent or knowledge and when we started to fall apart threatened to post it online to ruin my reputation as she was leaving our school. And now later she has tried to reach out and I blocked her again. She has made me afraid of group chats, calls from unknown numbers, which I wasn't before, texts in group chats, texts from anyone on snap, notifications, leaving my home, and every time something like this happens I feel like I'm gonna throw up and cry. So I want to know if I'm traumatized or just being a dramatic wimp. Thanks. Edit: I forgot to mention that she spread lies about me and talked shit about me behind my back and made herself the victim when all I did was say that I didn't like her. So yeah, also the video is not sexual, it was about a classmate